Relationship tips for Men

  • Her money and bank account is managed by him.
  • A husband not in control of his lust can get manipulated by his wife who can control him through lust, and so he loses.
  • A man’s mother-in-law should not be influencing her married daughter’s life, and if she does then the man needs to show her the boundary.
  • A newly married couple should not rush into having a child soon. They should wait for the honeymoon phase to end of around 8 months & then make the decision affirming that there is no going back with a child. This does not discount the proper courtship.
  • Never stop romancing her.
  • You may get her token gifts from time to time like gifting flowers or a skittle candy.
  • The leadership burden of a marriage is always on the man.
  • The man is ideally to be the sole provider in the house. Being frugal and having a lower standard of living, is a good option if not going for the dual income, when single income would not do. She is not an equal provider, though she may work part time.
  • Nagging is something which men do not tolerate. If some issue is bothering her, then solve it or get her to stop.
  • Miserable is the man who does not believe in romance, or that he loses his frame with it, or that he comes across as being weak while being romantic. Men are the more romantic gender, and such a man does not live to his true desire. Be romantic.
  • In public, a couple should always put up a united front. If asked – “Do you guys fight ?” Correct answer – “No, it does not happen as our connection is very strong.”
  • A woman wants to self convincingly believe that her man is capable of seducing almost any woman. “Show your charm on that woman” “Why did she call you back ?”
  • Woman is the storm lashing at the man’s leadership which is the rock to remain unperturbed by this storm.
  • A man getting a promotion at work is also victory for her.
  • The woman is the center around whom family is built.
  • “Do I look fat ?” when asked, is an eg of a time when a man should be playfully teasing her with a witty reply devoid of insult, and may also throw in a romantic gesture to go along with it. These moments build strong bond in a marriage.
  • When a woman feels loved, cherished and secure by a her man, then she can be free to be at her feminine best. Also, then she feels more confident to bring a child in this world.
  • The best gift a man can give a woman and his child, is to free his wife from the burden of being a major financial provider, so that she can be free to be at her feminine best and with it, take good care of their child and have a strong marriage.
  • Take more decisions. Lead. Discipline her. Put her down verbally. Encourage her to become better.
  • Playful teasing is a must. Tease her. Make her laugh.
  • The husband makes decisions like the choice of restaurant. In the restaurant, the husband even orders the food for both, since she can’t ever make up her mind and expects him to order anyways.
  • She wants to fantasize you as being the king of the world.
  • A man in love should still be emotionally resilient while maintaining his emotional connection to her.
  • Appreciate your wife for running the home well.
  • A woman wants to self convincingly believe that her man is capable of seducing almost any woman. “Show your charm on that woman” “Why did she call you back ?”
  • You have to take your wife out for vacation once in a while. Every woman expects to be taken out, and many do nag their husband.
  • A man is most prone to her manipulations, when he is deeply in love with her. He must learn consciously to not get manipulated by her and still at the same time, continue to love her deeply.
  • The husband is to be a mentor, guide and an affectionate authoritarian to care for her.
  • The wife assumes ownership of everything that a man own’s, and which is fine.
  • She is not always looking for you to solve her problems, so don’t attempt to be a problem solver all the time, as she may just be wanting you to listen to her problems like about her pathetic her coworkers. Just listen and nod.
  • You have to manage her emotions.
  • Men also need to learn to compromise like having to go to see the cherry blossom or to the tulip festival.
  • Take more decisions. Lead her. Guide her. Discipline her. Put her down. Encourage her to become better.
  • The best gift a man can give a woman and his child, is to free his wife from the burden of being a major financial provider, so that she can be free to be at her feminine best and with it, take good care of their child and have a strong marriage.
  • If a man cannot respect himself then he cannot expect his wife to respect him, which being the source of her love for him.
  • The husband should give his wife with small decision making power like selecting the color of the curtains in the bedroom, so that she doesn’t feel being left out of decision making and it also satiates her want of having influencing power.
  • The man is ideally to be the sole provider in the house, but we don’t live in ideal times anymore. Being frugal is an option, if not going for the dual income, and when single income would not do. She may work part time. She is not an equal provider.
  • A wife is equal to her husband, but as a complement and not as a feminist equal.
  • The woman is the center around whom family is built.
  • The wife is in charge of the kitchen. The husband should not even be entering the kitchen.
  • A wife is her husband’s property.
  • The husband is to have full control over his wife, for the good of both.
  • Once traditional gender roles are clear and it’s need, importance and understanding has been established by both, then role flexibility can be allowed for.

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