Being a loving Wife

• In public, a couple should always put up a united front. If asked – “Do you guys fight ?” Correct answer – “No, it does not happen as our connection is very strong.”
• A wife should be taking pride in being a better wife than the other women. She should make statements like “I am not like other wives “, ” I am just a good wife that I___”. ”I am such a good wife that I am not demanding“. Earn and expect his praise. A woman should feel proud when told that she is a good wife.
• Be smiling, and avoid complaining.
• She has become Mrs. ____His name_______ which is her mostly new identity.
• She is solely in charge of the kitchen.
• A woman should never be insulting or complaining about her man to anyone.
• Never lose respect for him.
• A woman must consciously learn not wanting to manipulate him.
• A man knows when to escalate a conflict in public with strangers. A woman doesn’t understand long term consequences of fights & wants her man to be violent to protect.  A woman should be his saving face in fights nor should she be seeing him as a coward.
• She can expect to receive some gift once in a while like a bouquet of flowers or a cheap earrings.
• He is your only hero and you cannot be having a liking for any male celebrity.
• Her money is his money. His money is their money.
• Delete all your social media accounts.
• He makes the final decision impacting them after listening to her.
• He makes decisions like the choice of restaurant. In the restaurant, he even orders the food for both, since she can’t ever make up her mind and expects him to order anyways.
• The wife assumes ownership of everything that a man own’s, and which is fine.
• He also need to learn to compromise like having to go to see the cherry blossom or to the tulip festival.
• He takes more decisions. Leads her. Guides her. Disciplines her. Puts her down. Encourages her to become better.
• Most couple lie on the way they met, and weave a story to tell others. She was after him, than him after her, and that she tricked him into marriage, should be the storyline to tell others.
• Don’t praise any other man. Don’t mention any liking for any other man eg actor.
• He leads but She also advises him.
• A woman’s relationship with her mother-in-law requires delicate handling and maturity.
• His biggest cheerleader.
• Don’t stop romancing.
• If approached by a man with what seems like an excuse conversation, just mention something about your husband or your married life, so that he knows and the conversation ends without heading into wrong direction.

If you have read Date to Marry guide, you have understood inter gender dynamics to maintain.

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