How does a high value woman act in a relationship ?

• In public, a couple should always put up a united front. If asked – “Do you guys fight ?” Correct answer – “No, it does not happen as our connection is very strong.”
• The wife should appreciate his hard work and be his source of respite.
• A wife should be taking pride in being a better wife than the other women. She requires her to be introspective. A wife should make statements like “I am not like other wives “, ” I am just a good wife that I___”. ” I am such a good wife that I am not demanding “
• The woman is the center around whom family is built.
• The wife has to do as told by her caring husband.
• Be a source of inspiration for him to become a better man.
• Your body is not for public display.
• A wife’s job is to appreciate the man’s burden, respect him, love him and worship him as her god.
• Be smiling, and avoid complaining. A wife’s smile keeps the husband motivated to carry forward the burden of patriarchy.
• A man is naturally possessive of the woman he impregnates.
• After marriage, her old identity is gone forever. She becomes Mrs. ____His name_______ which is her new identity.
• The wife is in charge of the kitchen. The husband should not even be entering the kitchen.
• A woman should never be insulting or complaining about her man to anyone.
• A woman should serve as an inspiration for her man to achieve greatness, so that he can serve her and their children better.
• Never lose respect for him.
• A woman must consciously learn not wanting to manipulate him.
• She is the dietician and the nurse of the family.
• A man knows when to escalate a conflict in public with strangers. A woman doesn’t understand long term consequences of fights & wants her man to be violent to protect.  A woman should be his saving face in fights nor should she be seeing him as a coward.
• She can expect to receive some gift once in a while like a bouquet of flowers or a cheap earrings.
• He is your only hero and you cannot be having a liking for any male celebrity.
• Her money is his money. His money is their money.
• Delete all your social media accounts.
• A man owes his Boomer In – laws nothing and has no responsibility towards them. A married woman can take care of her parents but don’t expect a man to do so for her parents, as that obligation died with the coming of feminist – liberal society.
• He makes the final decision impacting them after listening to her.
• Single women and married women looking to cheat will hit on him. Don’t bother if you have selected your husband well.
• He makes decisions like the choice of restaurant. In the restaurant, he even orders the food for both, since she can’t ever make up her mind and expects him to order anyways.
• The wife assumes ownership of everything that a man own’s, and which is fine.
• He also need to learn to compromise like having to go to see the cherry blossom or to the tulip festival.
• He takes more decisions. Leads her. Guides her. Disciplines her. Puts her down. Encourages her to become better.
• The wife should have small decision making power so that she doesn’t feel being left out of decision making.
• Most couple lie on the way they met, and weave a story to tell others.
• Earn and expect his praise.
• Don’t praise any other man. Don’t mention any liking for any other man eg actor.
• Being a great wife comes before being a great mother.
• He leads but She also advises him.
• A woman’s relationship with her mother-in-law requires delicate handling and maturity.
• His biggest cheerleader.
• A married man should never have to enter kitchen.
• A woman having a career still has to maintain trad gender dynamics along with fulfilling her trad gender role.
• He protect Her but She comes in between Him and Death. To get to the king the queen has to be defeated first.
• She was after him, than him after her, and that she tricked him into marriage, should be the storyline to tell others.
• Don’t stop romancing.
• A woman should feel proud when told that she is a good wife.
• If approached by a man with what seems like an excuse conversation, just mention something about your husband or your married life, so that he knows and the conversation ends without heading into wrong direction.
• Married couple need to find real couples in the real world for friendship, and not pet parents types or those whose free time is focused in travelling. The general outlook of childless and liberal couples cannot align with those who are family oriented.
• Marriage takes work, and being a wife is hard work, and being a mother is much harder work. Women who think it as a retirement and an episode of romance and such are delusional.

If you have read Date to Marry guide, you have understood inter gender dynamics to maintain.

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