Date to Marry Guide for Women

Learn to Date to Marry, find a traditionally minded quality man, understand inter gender dynamics, make him yours and have a successful marriage using this guide.

How to have a successful marriage in this age ?

Consider the reality –

• Overpopulation and Climate change are serious issues causing massive problems, along with the solutions that have been put in action to contain them – Social and Economic engineering.
• Economic growth is permanently over, so providing for a child will be difficult. Also to factor that, more the number of children, the lesser the share of inheritance each gets.
• Traditional culture will be completely lost in the coming decades to be completely replaced by liberalism.
• Mental depression is worsening.
• When people around you are choosing to be childless or bringing only 1 child and then raising them poorly, then the question arises whether the culture and environment is suitable ?
• Raising a child means needing a support network – family members and community members are helpful. With the atomized society, will others be able to help you? Family structure has been destroyed through feminism.
• Life expectancy is dropping with the passing generations.
• Violence and crime is increasing.
• Civilization is dying off at a fast rate and freedom is being lost.

Do you still want to marry ? Is it fair to bring a child in this rapidly decaying world and then give that child a miserable existence ? I would say bringing 1 child in this world seems right for most people, and the miserable existence is be considered as one’s bad luck. One cannot kill their genetic lineage, and lose purpose of life and create an existential crisis for themselves.

So how to have a successful marriage in this worsening age ?

For this, the below points have to be understood well while Dating for marriage :

• Traditional Gender roles have to be understood as it allows for Love. Become a traditionally feminine quality woman by learning it here.
• Learn to spot and be appealing to a quality traditionally minded man (listed below).
• Understand the ways to a successful relationship beforehand and of becoming a great wife.
• Be wanting to be a good mother.
• Get your mind to be able to tackle the worsening times by maintaining a superior consciousness.
• Strategize your life for Post modern times.
• Keep good health as life expectancy drops.

Pointers for Date to Marry –

• Don’t be excessively opinionated.
• There is a limit to a man’s patience, before he decides it is not worth it to fix her, and that it is better off for him to find a more quality woman.
• Be presentable with a good aesthetic sense, such that your man is proud to hold to.
• Don’t try to seduce him.
• A humble grocery bagging woman feels more appealing as a wife, than a corporate careerist.
• Marry early. A woman’s fleeting beauty is useless without a solo admirer, who will even remember and cherish the past memories of her beauty as she ages, if he got his muse at her prime and fell in love with her deeply.
• If he does not give you sleepless nights, he is not for you.
• Women are attracted to powerful men. Powerful women (in masculine sense) repulse men.
• Make him feel masculine and show admiration for his masculinity.
• A shy demeanor in a woman generates love interest in a man. A bold demeanor in a woman only generates lust interest in a man.
• A smiling woman instantly becomes more attractive.
• Present yourself as being loyal, patient, kind, compliant and docile.
• An intelligent man is a natural miser.
• Being Frugal is a nice quality to have as it indicates being intelligent and a low maintenance woman.
• Manipulate him into leading you.
• It is things like a woman’s graceful laugh that captivates a man.
• Find a man for whom, you would be the most beautiful woman in the world.
• Inquire as to how he handles tough phases in life ?
• Economic growth is permanently over. It becomes even more important to find a man who can persist in the game of life.
• A woman should partly incite similar emotions in a man, to the one that a baby incites in a woman. Cute and Innocent, get loved and protected. Bring out his paternalistic emotions, to work for you.
• The shy silent woman needs to show that she can emotionally bond in love.
• Don’t act immature. Be someone who has the maturity and understanding of the workings of a relationship and marriage. Be the woman, who he sees as a team member to build a family with.
• Eye contact: Test his dominance, his interest and make him fall for you. Stare lovingly in his eyes, if he has shown liking & maintain the eye contact with him. If he is dominant, he would maintain the eye contact and wait for you to break it.
• Present as being cheerful and happy.
• Men calculate the effort that would be required to fix a woman and making her to become as per his desire.
• Play vulnerability to your advantage. Being vulnerable will bring out his paternalistic emotion towards you and create a liking for you.
• A man having too many friends is a low quality man.
• Seek a man with who can lead with wisdom. He should be a natural philosopher.
• Once you have made the mind to trust him, you have to submit and give yourself completely to him for allowing the relationship to get built. From then onwards, his destiny becomes your destiny.
• (Fun Loving + Shy + Intelligent + Virtuous) > Rest
• He has to consider you, to be your complementarily equal. You are searching for a masculine match for your feminine power.
• A man who cannot lead without spiritual wisdom, will guide his family into a state of despair.
• Love is the reward a woman gets, for her submission and respect towards her man.
• Loyalty is one the best trait in a woman.
• You want a good man who has mastered dark side.
• Find a man more cunning than you.
• His grasp of reality, is one of the measure of his leadership ability.
• Don’t be too open to him from the start. Show that you have interest but have boundaries.
• When a man sees a woman wearing fake eyelashes, he feels he is getting duped. No, for fake eyelashes.
• Sense of humor in a man is good trait to seek, but should be a less prioritized one.
• Avoid trying to correct him.
• Find a man who has been through a lot and then returned back to his saner state. This man has seen suffering and returned back with wisdom.
• A man should have experience with dealing with evil.
• Defer to him more. Get him to make decisions. ” Where are we going ? ” Get him to take responsibility for you.
• Don’t demand chivalry; rathe inspire him to be chivalrous towards you.
• He should be financially and emotionally prepared to take on his role of a husband.
• Do not pursue a man directly and aggressively. Give him hints of your interest. If he cares and responds, get him to pursue you.
• 1st Date – Coffee shop, where you offer to pay or just pay; Later dates – He should pay for you, if reasonable amounts.
• He is Her anchor.
• Does he inspire you to become a better woman ?
• His biggest cheerleader.
• He is her security.
• She is his solace.
• Who is a Man ? One who can think logically and wants to impose his will on the world.
• A good woman is attracted to a cunningness in a man. A good man is repulsed by cunningness in a woman.
• You are aiming too high.
• Do you see a mentor in him ?
• Does he have a sense of righteousness ?
• Is he able to manage money ? Can he retain wealth ? Is he calculative with money ?
• He wants her support. She wants to support him.
• Learn to spot a sociopath. Some are clinically psychopath. They have trained themselves not to appear as one.
• A religious person does not translate to being a good person.
• Learn to take rejections.
• Do you like his way of thinking ? Do you want to live your life based on his mindset ?
• A healthy gender dynamics requires the woman to be more conservative than the man.
• The chemistry is either there or it isn’t. This will be clear in the first 10 minutes of meeting.
• A person having integrity is a person having loyalty.
• She pursues him by making him pursue her, and if he is not interested then he will not take it forward.
• A woman seeks emotional stability in a man, who will help her pass through storms of emotions that run inside her mind. However, a man wants a calm and composed woman.
• If you cannot admire and respect him, then he is not for you.
• Enquire on the kind of daughter he will raise, and it will give an idea on his plan for you to become.
• A woman feels nervous in the company of the man she likes.
• The woman amalgamates into the man creating an union.
• Find someone who yearns to live in the past era of simplicity and decency.
• Don’t act too intelligent on a topic he is not aware of.
• Do you see a father of your child in him ?
• A good connection feels effortless.
• No two men are same, and no two women are same. Recognize yourself, and find your type.
• A woman’s job is to appear as less burdensome as she can present.
• Is he the man for whom you want to leave behind everything and start a new journey with ?
• She is an addition to his life. His life remains the same except for the ways he accommodates her into his life.
• Acceptable women’s marriageable age for the present times : 25 – 29 years.
• Is he resilient ? Be whatever tragedy comes, will he keep moving forward to win ?
• You don’t have to play a psychologist in trying to know him.
• Love is also a submission for the man, whose submission takes the form of dominance.
• Having male ego is a part of his sexuality. But as a human, he should be egoless.
• Is he a problem solver ? Does he have solution for most problems ?
• Dating begins as a transaction and ceases to be with getting married/falling in love.
• Do you want to face the hardships of life together with him ?
• His future matters. Her past matters.
• He has a vision for his life and a role for her that fits into this vision.
• Match from a broader level : His IQ = Her IQ, His Beauty = Her Beauty, His Wealth = Her Wealth, His Values = Her Values, His Masculinity ~ Her Femininity
• Reflect being loyal.
• Don’t be mysterious.
• Does his family have a stellar reputation ?
• She enters his life and makes it better.
• A man either has it in him or he doesn’t.
• Do you feel safe from others around him ?
• Is he ruthless towards achieving his goals ?
• Traditional femininity attracts traditional masculinity.
• Are you being used as a target practice by a man wanting to improve his dating skills ? Identify time wasters.
• Is he head – strong and does he have a strong will power ?
• Do you enjoy spending time with him ? Is he fun to be with ? Is he a good companion ?
• Trust precedes Love.
• Marriage is the union of two families ensuring their genetic survival.
• Is he wise beyond years ?
• Is he fighting fit ?
• Do everything to earn his trust.
• Have fun with figuring him out.
• The virtuous man and virtuous woman will seek each other.
• Even if a woman is not gorgeous but above average in looks, a quality man is willing to overlook if it compensates in all other ways.
• The hot woman is not winning a man’s love. A man’s love is contingent upon her chasteness. The sex object does not become love object.
• A woman has to be reflect she carries culture and values.
• Holding generational wealth has now become important even for a woman to be considered as being marriage worthy.
• A woman who doesn’t love babies cannot be a wife material.
• A woman who cannot follow is a woman unfit to become a wife. .
• It looks poorly on a woman who is testing him with her annoying manipulative tests. Be aware that you are testing him even unconsciously.
• The immature/dumb/silly woman will get dropped.
• Most of the date to marry advisory available is outdated; even that which was set 5 years ago. Times has changed rapidly and will continue to change even faster. You want advice that understands the present and takes care of the future.
• Marry by the age of 28 and get the best deal for yourself. Nothing ignites a man’s interest like a young fertile woman. Also, a young woman brings out a man’s paternalistic emotion for her bringing him closer to loving her. Women lose femininity both physically and psychologically with the passing age, along with losing feminine attraction appeal.
• The woman with PhD has limited her own mate choices through her biological compulsion of marrying someone at a higher status than hers.
• Don’t play hard to get. It makes her appear less attractive besides ruining inter gender dynamics.
• Would you want your son to be like this man ?
• Be thankful for his time.
• Men who marry solely based on a woman’s looks, and women who marry solely based on a man’s income or wealth, will most likely see a broken marriage. First criteria is a good human having shared values, and then comes everything else.
• Dating beings as a transaction and ends without it with falling in love, and along with it that which started as selfishness turns into selflessness.
• The match of the male ego with the female ego, but while the male ego assists him with his dating success the female ego of hers does not and should not be reflected.
• He “sees” Her. She “hears” Him.
• Don’t fantasize for a character and don’t play a character.
• Women who fake femininity are same as men who fake masculinity. It appears pathetic.
• Liberal is not evil but inferior or inferior influenced. You want a virtous Trad minded man. Liberalism = Promiscuity = Cuck + Slut
• Most people have given up on the idea of having a family. There are many married and still childless couple. Clear it up on wanting a child from start.
• You want to be approached by your “type”. A Man also has to approach his “type”. No point in trying to make it happen with someone who is not your complement and doesn’t share your values.
• Find a man for whom you would be the most beautiful woman in the world.
• Don’t present as a fashion model. Rather, present as a wife material.
• A high value mate is one who wants a successful marriage and has somewhat prepared beforehand for the nuances that goes onto making a marriage successful. This brings a transformation in one’s mindset and leads to shedding of ignorance.
• Even after you have got hold of the right mindset for marriage, it can take years to find the right mate.
• Don’t have unrealistic expectation of Love but attempt to actively create a Love story.
• Holding Generational wealth is important criteria for both, and essential for at the least one of them to be able to a raise a family. Economic growth is over along with the idea of a life long career providing a good income.
• Don’t drain his energy.
• Since life is getting tougher, people are just waiting longer for a perfect mate to justify the efforts required in raising a family.
• He provides because She takes care of the house, him and the child in exchange. Otherwise he doesn’t have to provide.
• There are 2 main categories of people left : 1. The majority – who don’t want to have a child or are unsure or have not given a thought 2. The minority – who are sure of wanting to be a parent Focus on belonging to the second group.
• Fall in Love after marriage and not before. Use the courtship period to judge.
• The spark is either there or it isn’t. If the spark isn’t then there is no point in moving forward.
• 2 factors no Man will compromise with in a woman : 1. Her lack of virginity 2. Past her fertility window ( ~ 30 years )
• The intelligent good man but foolish due to lacking in wisdom and cunningness, will lose in life.
• Listen to your gut instincts. If he seems a poor match, then he is.
• A woman does not have to be perfect but needs to reflect being one who has the potential to be guided right and thereby overcoming her inadequacy. A virgin who is salvageable.
• No one is perfect. Everyone has to compromise somewhere and accept certain shortcomings of a person.
• Love is not a virtue. It’s simply an emotion of reproduction like lust.
• High quality men are extremely choosy.
• Do you want to live for him and not just live with him ?
• Keep it real and honest.
• His leadership is his submission to Her.
• Between the two, better to compromise on looks than on IQ. IQ > Looks
• If one wants marriage to last life long, then one’s core has to be trad minded. Liberal mindset is for short term mating and not for marriage.
• A woman should not reflect being burdensome.
• Her vital stats is one of the deciding factor. A woman lacking baby bearing hips appears less attractive.
• Reflect being kind and find a man who is kind.
• The match of his consciousness with that of hers.
• You cannot compromise on a person’s virtuousness. Everything else can be compromised with, as a perfect person doesn’t exist, and finding a good match for one’ self is difficult.
• Religious people tend to be asexual and boring in general.
• 1st Date : Have fun; 3rd Date : Ask about wanting children ? You don’t want time wasters.
• “Tell me what to do” – Right words coming out of a woman’s mouth.
• Obedience looks right on a woman.
• A smart woman makes use of her vulnerability to appear more attractive.
• Come as a giver, and less as a receiver.
• Liking nature walks is a good trait to seek.
• Can shop or work at stores like whole foods and trader joes where the intelligent + more conscience men come, and hope to be approached.
• Be quick to reply to his texts.
• The high value man is ruthless with his selection criteria just like women.
• Relatively, women judge better offline than online. A man’s attractiveness can accurately be felt in his presence.
• Test him : “I say, you want to keep control of a woman with no income of her own, who will have no independence from you & won’t even even have her say about her own life.”
• Someone’s core nature doesn’t change largely. They can surely improve for better but one’s character is embedded genetically. Find someone with a natural good core.
• If matched digitally, just meet physically after texting and don’t talk before on phone. This allows for the connection to not fizzle out and a certain excitement remains when physically meeting.
• Vulnerability —> Trust —> Love.
• He should be capable of managing her emotions.
• Is he able to maintain his calmness under social pressure ?
• Until you master reading faces, don’t marry.
• Reflect being romantic and being obsessed with Love.
• A woman who doesn’t shed her feminist mindset will not find Love.
• Drop at the hint of being toxic.
• Reflect on wanting a child. Most women haven’t decided or want to remain childless.
• The purpose of 1st Date is getting to know each other so as to ascertain on wanting a 2nd Date.
• Since patriarchy doesn’t exist any longer, it becomes imperative to find a man who has recreated it for himself.
• Reflect being health conscious as it indicative of many positive traits.
• The man interested with the conquer energy will want to conquer you.
• Judge for both : Do you lust and can you love him ?
• Most men don’t have a bright future, so take this into consideration and marry right. After this, if he survives then well and good, should be the mindset.
• Reflect traditional femininity as it stands for wanting to become a wife and mother. Traditional femininity is also attractive for a man hunting for a wife and a mother to be for his child.
• A man should be considered ‘successful’ as can be defined for the present era, and not the older times. Some visible success is enough to prove his genetic worth and reflects on his capability. After this, other selection factors matter.
• Most people including their Boomer parents have given up on maintaining their genetic legacy through a child. You want to find someone who wants a strong marriage and a well raised child and is willing to struggle and fight it out.
• Dumb and Smart is written on a person’s face. This is different from Cunning, which also can be read. Learn to read faces.
• A Man should be able to dominate her through his witty sense of humour.
• Atheistically spiritually inclined women are attractive. Spiritual here does not mean god worshipping type or a hippie type.
• Her friends are a reflection of hers.
• Innocence was protected in women to preserve their femininity and appeal. This is no longer the case.
• The low quality woman is excited about her wedding. The high quality woman is really looking forward towards starting a married life, being a wife and having a baby.
• Masculinity is about taking the lead, pursuing life goals, not succumbing to societal pressures and taking care of loved ones. Find a masculine man.
• She after him, than him after her, and that she tricked him into marriage, should be the storyline to tell others.
• There are 3 different traits orientation for a person : 1. Evil – Virtuous 2. Trad – Liberal 3. Masculine – Feminine You want a man : Virtuous + Trad + Masculine. You want to reflect being : Virtuous + Trad + Feminine
• Is he capable in dealing with sociopaths ?
• Remove mental blockages beforehand so that you are able to emotionally connect and submit when you meet the right Man.
• He should be having a well-honed conscience.
• Marriage is not to find happiness. Marriage is a part of life and life is a struggle because survivalism is a struggle. Unhappy before marriage, and unhappy after marriage.
• There is a small percentage of conservative masses still remaining and will continue to remain to the future, living amongst the liberal masses. Identify and find your type. Don’t bother appealing to the ones whose values don’t match.
• The career woman wanting to turn into a housewife out of greed deserves no marriage. A woman having a career out of need deserves marriage. A housewife having a career to support financially deserves respect.
• The woman who has materialistic demands as conditions before marriage deserves nothing and is not worthy of marriage. The woman who wants to join his life and be a partner in hardship deserves all that the man is capable of giving.
• Her chastity is one of her value and without which all the rest of her values get diminished.
• The liberal minded woman who was unsure of having a child, wants to have one when she meets an attractive trad minded man but this man wants nothing to do with her. A woman has to be Trad minded from the start.
• Reflect valuing your femininity without coming across as being entitled.
• A man’s leadership has never mattered more. He should be capable of guiding through the worsening times.
• His mystery will run out within a few dates. Hope to have build some connection by then.
• Even if you have to compromise and settle, so what. You can inspire him to become a better man.
• Be pleasing towards him.
• It is a man’s pleasure in molding a woman to become his ideal. She is the art, and He is the artist. A man sees through her inadequacy and envisions a creation through his guidance. A woman must come across as one who is looking to be shaped.
• Show concern towards his well – being.
• Wealth is not permanent. Will you stay with this man if he has no wealth to be remaining in the next decade ?
• Seek a wise man. There are many high IQ fools. Who is a wise man ? One grounded in wisdom, and more so if that wisdom originates within him.
• His understanding of Her should exceed Her understanding of herself.
• Where to meet a Man ? There are men walking down the street. Sure some places are better – High end grocery stores, dance class, yoga class, parks, coffee shops in downtown and commercial areas. Can voluteer at a spiritual place.
• If he is not ruthless, he cannot fight evil, and if he cannot fight evil, he cannot protect his assets and loved ones.

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