Date to Marry pointers for High Value Women to find a High Value Man –
- 1st date : To have fun and to just check if values match at broader level to want a second date to actually know the person better.
- Understand him and his true nature, and this not through his impression being created in your mind, as it creates a false impression.
- He should be proud of himself. She should be proud of him. She should want him to be proud of her.
- Don’t underestimate the effect of praising a man has on him.
- A good connection feels like knowing each other from a long time.
- Match from a broader level : His IQ = Her IQ, His Beauty = Her Beauty, His Net worth = Her Net worth, His Values = Her Values, His Masculinity = Her Femininity.
- Make him feel masculine and show admiration for his masculinity.
- Present yourself as being loyal, patient, kind, compliant and docile.
- He should be more cunning than her.
- She is his solace.
- A woman feels nervous in the company of the man she likes.
- Don’t play hard to get as it makes her appear less attractive besides ruining gender dynamics.
- Bring the boyish playfulness out of him.
- 1st date : Begin at a coffee shop, and then go for a stroll, better if in a park.
- Have fun figuring him out.
- When she likes him, she tries to impress him and which appears obvious to him.
- A person’s right decision making ability should be tested.
- Chemistry going right – When he scolds her, and she does not mind.
- Vulnerability —> Trust —> Love.
- Every married woman is going to be living in his rented place or in his parent’s house until inherited.
- Enquire on the kind of daughter he will raise, and it will give an idea on his plan for you.
- Values should be similar, and then she adapts to his values.
- Being able to have chemistry from a range of acceptable personality types means having a larger selection pool.
- Two high value mates don’t need more than 4 months to make a decision to go for marriage.
- There is no co – relation between a person being religious and being virtuous.
- Since almost everyone wears the same type of clothes and brands, one cannot guess one’s financial status easily through their wear.
- A humble young woman working at a grocery store is more appealing as a wife than a corporate careerist.
- Don’t try to create a perfect love story as it will end in disappointment; just go with the flow.
- Lust, Love and Romance are 3 different things which are interconnected. Lust – Physical attraction. Love – Strong emotional liking and attachment. Romance – Expression of Love.
- Just eye contact for a second or a slight smile helps in getting a man to approach you if it appears he is considering to and you are interested in him.
- A good character and certain other factors are essential after which check on vibe and chemistry.
- 5th Date is a good time to reveal any heath issues if any.
- Have the mindset of wanting 2 children even if you want 1.
- Can he protect you from yourself ?
- The best of women are not active on social media.
- Date time : State that you will pay for your food expenses before ordering, which creates a good impression.
- You want to be endorsed by your type of man.
- He should get her to reveal about herself while restricting sharing about himself.
- Can you trust him to handle your portfolio, bank account and assets ?
- 1st and 2nd date : No physical contact of any kind and not to get emotionally tangled. 1st date is to have fun and to know on wanting a 2nd date. 2nd date is to scrutinize.
- 1st Date : 1 Hour limit as it gets mentally exhausting.
- If you come across an interesting personality online, you need to attempt to map that personality type in the real world, so that you are closer to finding your match in the real world.
- He shouldn’t be too strong early on indicating he is family oriented. Rather he should give the hints and judge her, her fit and the chemistry.
- Number needs to be taken during the conversation and not after the conversation ends as it can lead to missed opportunities.
- Its always good when it feels there is unlimited things to talk about to other.
- Flirting is a necessary game to be played. She can even complement something about his looks.
- He will test her on the way she handles disagreements.
- Date to Marry with the goal to have children but the children you have should be the expression of the love for each other.
- Impress him with your frugality.
- Earn his praises to feel good.
- Your bank accounts change into being joint bank account after marriage. Her money is His money, and His money is their money.
- 1st or 2nd Date – It is always tough for a man to convey his rejection, when she is in. Her capacity to take rejection is limited. It is better for him to finish the date, and later convey through text if it doesn’t get clear with the hints he gives during the dates and she doesn’t catch from the vibes.
- Initial times : The woman who likes him appears more attractive than she is, which is not the case or even opposite from a woman’s point of view.
- Being fun loving helps developing chemistry and eases getting into a relationship.
- Very few people meet through him approaching her in public as a stranger. When they did not meet online, they met in college or were co workers or such, were the environment allowed the interaction. Meeting first time in real world and creating a true love story.
- In general, she needs to be an intelligent, capable woman who can raise children and survive this world on her own if he were to die early. This makes her ability to learn from him to appear attractive.
- If she desires him, she copies him. This is her subconsciously submitting to him and partnering with him.
- You need your IQ match. A person’s field of study is a proxy for intelligence but one shouldn’t just dismiss others whose occupation is typically associated with a lower intelligence than one’s and should rather test that person’s intelligence. The fastest way to find an equivalent intelligence mate is still to search with a degree or occupation that is associated with an intelligence level. It is better if one doesn’t go too down an occupation or degree associated level of intelligence but some downward direction is alright and one can to search for intelligent mate from those occupation. With approaching someone, ask their about their job and education to get an idea. Even if her IQ is slightly higher than his, but with gender polarity and trad role in place, the chemistry will come and relationship will work. If his IQ is slightly higher than hers, it will work. Too large an IQ gap either ways, and it will be frustrating and should be avoided. Better to prioritize and mate hunt at locations where intelligent people can be found. With intelligence gap, it is difficult to even connect or feel attracted.
- Her financial investments matter. She should be overlooking her and her family’s investments. She has to financially savvy that reflects she can survive on her own. What if he is to die early ?
- You shouldn’t want him if you feel he doesn’t find you irresistibly physically attractive. Raw attraction threshold needs to be crossed for both the gender but matters more on a woman due to sexuality differences.
- Can get confusing whether she is tricking him into believing she is his match or that she likes him that she is adapting and mimicking his mindset.
- Share your insecurities with him.
- Be more direct with your conversation. Hinting can come across as being passive aggressive.
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