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The pyjama wearing woman will not get approached even she appears feminine and virtuous otherwise. She is liberal by mindset and not compatible.
Just too many women are not even approachable. Liberal influenced appearing, mental health issues – depressed and angry appearing, weird combination of being spiritual and feminist appearing, careerist appearing, Bitchy, masculine, lacking in feminine aura, physically lacking in attractiveness with some percentage being chubby, having white hair. “Can she be a wife material or be made into one ? ” runs through a high value man’s head. The answer is no for 90% of women based on just aura and looks being reflected.
She has to FEEL right to him.
High value people are not found through online dating, matrimonial websites, dating apps.
Approach and get approached everywhere. At the train stations, inside trains, bus stops, malls, corporate centers, grocery store, waiting at signal crossing, universities.
Numbers game is not everything but it is present. Very few get lucky otherwise in finding a good match.
Some women just want to marry within their community, and that’s fine, and a man has to let go off them. A woman adapts to his culture, so it doesn’t affect him much.
There is some cultural attractiveness attached to some community’s culture which makes the person from that culture more desirable.
The best dates will be when it feels like a yes from the start of being approached and there is a natural feeling of love. Other dates might give the feeling of settling.
Better to meet once for a date, rather than making assumptions based on social media presence or so, after being random approached. But, when you meet the first time, judge well.
With the right person, everything feels natural and not requiring any effort. The desire to love also comes naturally, and the love story will get written on its own.
When one meets for the 1st time and enjoys 5 mins of conversation and wants to continue talking, number needs to get shared.
Dating is to be tailored depending on the personality and culture on that person.
Go to spiritual centers and you will find certain women who are not liberal type of degenerates. The problem with such women is that they tend to be careerist type or so, or weirdly religious but not family oriented which makes her undesirable. Her being spiritual has no value from a marriage point of view.
Better to find your type than having to change someone.
1st or 2nd Date – It is always tough for a man to convey his rejection, when she is in. Her capacity to take rejection is limited. It is better for him to finish the date, and later convey through text if it doesn’t get clear with the hints he gives during the dates and she doesn’t catch from the vibes.
There is a text game to be played after giving out number. If he hasn’t asked you out to meet yet, he might be waiting for your response, so can reach out with an excuse conversation.
Don’t ever be overinvested from the start. You maybe in from the start but he may not be sure. He maybe dating to marry to get experience. One sided desire is painful to observe. He should tell her at the start of the 1st date to not get emotionally invested as if it doesn’t work out then it will hurt.
Don’t speak negative about yourself.
Random approach : Better that a break doesn’t appear in conversation. One topic should take to another, otherwise feels awkward to restart conversation.
Random approach : She shouldn’t bother on what the public might be thinking incase she gets approached in close space like inside a bus or train.
Random approach : He has to get the introverted women to chat.
Random approach : He needs to build conversation and connection with her fast if having approached her at train station or inside train or such scenarios wherein the conversation can break due to their different paths.
Random approach : Better that a break doesn’t appear in conversation. One topic should take to another, otherwise feels awkward to restart conversation.
Random approach : Some women who are not interested in chatting just give some basic reply and turn other ways.
His mystery is attractive and will run out soon and which is good because you want to fall in love with him and not with the idea of him.
The right man naturally feels protective about truly innocent women.
Random approach : Some women don’t get it that he can come with an excuse chat to gauge compatibility and interest, and not to have a friendly chat. Some may have a sense but enjoy chatting out of attraction but are not interested in moving forward or that they simply might be bored and are enjoying the conversation.
Random approach : intellectual level match or similar work domain helps in creating interest and spark. Some women are cheerful and have a good nature but cannot match on mental level which kills attraction for her.
Initial times : The woman who likes him appears more attractive than she is, which is not the case or even opposite from a woman’s point of view.
If she has a cheerful nature and smiles a lot, and he loves her, then he will ensure that she never loses that joy from her face, and will take the burden of life off her.
Either appear happy or blissful, or the best being appearing both.
Weekdays are for mate hunting, so make most of it. Saturday can be used for going on date. Sundays are break days.
Almost all women are boring. There is not much intellectual stimulation they give in conversation. If she is not fun and playful, then it is difficult to even have chemistry. He is also not interested in socializing with your boring girlfriend. Really need energy and desire to continue conversation with most women.
Women cannot lead themselves into relationship. He needs to approach, push and make it happen.
Random approach – She talking about her career path is a turn off, and he doesn’t feel like there is a match here to want to continue.
She maybe a good woman but if there’s no chemistry, it’s not going to work.
Random approach : It should not be half hearted approach. Him being tired doesn’t help. He should approach as if he is going for the kill. While keeping it positive as rejections are common as most women are not comfortable with being approached by a stranger in public.
Gut instincts is the best filter.
Loneliness shouldn’t make one go for questionable match.
Random approach excuse chat is vibe, personality and chemistry check.
Don’t care about the opinions of others if you decide to go for some man. Marry for yourself and not for others.
Feminine aura brings him to approach her. Traditional femininity wants him to enter relationship with her.
Be playful with him. There cannot really be chemistry between the two without being playful with each other, and a depressed woman or a one with a reserved nature will find it difficult to be playful. Being fun loving eases getting into a relationship.
Random approach : Some women are approached just to maintain the momentum.
Random approach : He wants her staying away from her parents. She residing near her parents feels like a deal breaker.
If he feels exhausted talking to her, there may not be a great match.
Random approach: There are naturally high value women hesitant to give out number to a stranger and that’s okay and they have to be let go. A liberal oriented woman is more likely to give out a number since she has less inhibition, and which doesn’t help.
Random approach: There are naturally high value women hesitant to give out number to a stranger and that’s okay and they have to be let go.
There are some young women who are having fiancé, and he is not settled in career or life. These women have made poor mate selection.
Very few people meet through him approaching her in public as a stranger. When they did not meet online, they met in college or were co workers or such, were the environment allowed the interaction. Meeting first time in real world and creating a love story, is the truest way.
It is impossible to have a traditional relationship without age difference in the current times.
It is also foolish especially for a man, to limit his mate search to his community. Hunt for like minded people or from adjacent cultures who can adopt your values and culture.
Introvert type women who appear that they cannot emotionally connect don’t appear attractive.
Don’t need to join activities that you don’t enjoy to interact easily with the opposite gender or don’t feel you don’t want a partner into it. Example : Dancing class.
In general, she needs to be an intelligent, capable woman who can raise children and survive this world on her own if he were to die early. This makes her ability to learn from him to appear attractive.
It’s energy draining and uninspiring to be around average people. It’s just their dull life, going to job on weekdays and waiting for the weekend, married to average.
Random approach – She shouldn’t be having her cousins or any other relatives living nearby.
Random approach – if her bachelors is in a discipline that doesn’t require much intelligence, it is a disappointment and is unlikely to work. If she has a degree that requires more than average intelligence and she seems fine otherwise, then she needs to be investigated for her intelligence. The best is when she has a degree that requires a good IQ.
Liberals want to try it out before marriage, because physical relationship is mainly the basis of their marriage. Liberals cannot truly love each other, and cannot follow natural gender roles.
Imagine not wanting a fun loving partner when life is an episode of suffering.
He should be clean shaven; looks fresh and gives better look. Beard indicates being not well groomed, lazy or being influenced by mainstream look of not shaving and so a conformist idiot.
Random approach – If interested, she needs to show interest by asking about him, smiling, appearing friendly.
Random approach : Shyness is charming on women but a hindrance to chatting and connecting.
His job is not to save any woman. He is on the hunt to find the best quality woman for himself. His job is not to rescue any woman who has been captured by feminist ideology. His job is not to make a woman realize the purpose of life. His job is to reject foolish women. His job is to reject crazy women. His job is to reject women who don’t to be a mother or are undecided. His job is to reject women who don’t take responsibility for their life. His job is to reject women who believe in destiny or that the man destined for her will magically come in her life. His job is reject women with anxiety issues. His job is not to get introverted to speak. His job is to trust his intuition. His job is to reject women faking femininity. His job is to reject feminist women being submissive. His job is reject women who are low on energy and speak softly that its barely audible. His job is to reject women who are a burden.
Rejecting a woman who desires him, is a cruel thing that has to be done if she isn’t a match for him.
If the conversation feels mentally exhausting, it’s not going to work. Enjoying the conversation is the one of the most important aspects for a relationship to happen.
Random approach – Not wasting time on targets with which it cannot work and are not on type, is saving time. Cutting conversation with those with whom it cannot work is saving time.
If she desires him, she copies him. This is her subconsciously submitting to him and partnering with him.
Feminism has destroyed getting matches the traditional way. Even if a woman is not a careerist, she becomes a victim of hypergamy through her credentials, earnings propped by feminist corporates and wanting someone from her career field. All this reduces matches. Meanwhile, successful family oriented men are looking for a young traditional woman who can keep her liberal family members at a distance. Hence, one has to mate hunt on own in public and be open to other communities if one doesn’t want to settle down with someone amongst the lesser choices and enter feminist marriage framework, which is the path to destruction and with being loveless. This is going to be applicable to all intelligent women as they would be having a worthwhile degree and would be working.
With being approached and being interested, ask him questions to know him and to show interest.
There is a feeling of too many choices due to the societal environment which makes shortlisting to one feel more difficult as one can question oneself of getting an appropriate match.
A man needs extreme patience and delayed gratification to create a good life and then wait to match with a high value woman.
Introverted women appear disinterested and give the vibe that they cannot love deeply which makes them appear less attractive.
The best time to mate hunt is in the morning and afternoon as people tire out by evening and don’t want to talk.
Interest doesn’t have to be a straight yes or no as it can in grey area due to not knowing a person or having other priorities in life. Best is to meet for 30 mins, if unsure. Ideally, you want a complete yes from start.
Random approach : He should let the awkwardness be and not mention anything about it. He should express interest, and beyond mentioning that he dates to marry, he shouldn’t say anything to comfort her. He needs to take her number and text his number on WhatsApp and then let her decide if she is interested to go a date. She can reject him then. If she doesn’t reply back to his first text, she is disinterested or too introverted. He can write back to her once more after some days to know her interest.
The best mates are the ones who can give multiple positive personalities in one.
There are different acceptable personality types in both genders. Out of these, you don’t have to appeal to types who are not your ideal match, but you should be open to partnering with different personality types as otherwise it will limit the pool. Also, there would be positive traits in some personality types that are missing in a more ideal personality type you want.
Being approached : There are introverted women having social skills and anxiety issues, due to end of small talk, atomization and with everyone being glued on their phones in public.
Women looking depressed, scornful, bitchy don’t get approached.
With rampant mental health issues, her sanity matters. Women who appear having issues, will not even get approached.
She has to submit to allow a relationship to happen. She should feel that she can trust him with her life and he needs to demonstrate patience in winning her trust while judging her being worthy to take the burden of.
Without enjoying conversation, can’t get into a relationship.
Don’t take dating advice from : 1. Those in their 30s who are childless or with a child and struggling financially. 2. Those who in their 40s and above. 3. Liberals of all age group.
You need to know that which is attractive to your type and don’t need the validation of those who are not your type. Don’t adopt the dating path of those who are not your type.
Soft spoken introverted woman might be opening up and are seen as better wife material if she is interested but still appear less attractive to a fun loving man.
Where does he plan to reside ? Will he stay close to his parents ? Does he plan to rent and live for a long time ?
Can’t enjoy talking to someone whose intellect doesn’t match
She follows him to the corners of Earth where ever he feels it will be right for him, his family and her.
Have interesting questions ready beforehand to ask when you go on date. You don’t want the date to feel like an interview.
Appearing trad minded and appearing friendly are two different aspects when it comes to getting approached. A trad minded woman may not appear approach worthy.
Learn to win a high value man when you date him, rather than being amused by him and appearing silly.
Many Date to Marry advice from even 3 years ago, is not helpful anymore. Times have changed rapidly.
So many good women are wearing revealing clothes with being influenced by mainstream culture and not realizing that they are losing out on trad minded men.
A high value family oriented woman couldn’t find a Man till the age of 30 ? Really ? A 30 year old woman will never appear as attractive as her 22 year version, both mentally and physically. Younger feminine women are intoxicating, and no high value successful will settle for a older woman. 28 years is the cutoff.
Daddy’s spoilt princess will never become his queen.
There is nothing like a traditional provider remaining. Ideally, two people are bringing their generational wealth to the marriage.
Quality approaches > Quantity approaches. She has to potentially reflect being a high value woman, and such women can be seen at a count of 1 in few hours period, and then also need the opportunity to chat with her and then it continues.
It takes to be a loser to have a boyfriend and more so when he hasn’t even settled in life and then hope or consider to build a life with him. Wrong and liberal approach to life. A smart trad minded woman will hunt for a husband material who she can love and with whom she can build a family.
Her happiness and cheerfulness is one of the greatest gift she gives to him. A woman who cannot be defeated by the harness of life and hasn’t become bitter but at the same time is not careless and airheaded. She smiles and laughs a lot.
Introvert Women are better wife material but difficult to approach and chat. Introvert women need to rise over their introversion and should approach men just like men have to approach women. If don’t have the courage, then smile and use eye contact to get a man to approach you.
You need your IQ match. A person’s field of study is a proxy for intelligence but one shouldn’t just dismiss others whose occupation is typically associated with a lower intelligence than one’s and should rather test that person’s intelligence. The fastest way to find an equivalent intelligence mate is still to search with a degree or occupation that is associated with an intelligence level. It is better if one doesn’t go too down an occupation or degree associated level of intelligence but some downward direction is alright and one can to search for intelligent mate from those occupation. With approaching someone, ask their about their job and education to get an idea. Even if her IQ is slightly higher than his, but with gender polarity and trad role in place, the chemistry will come and relationship will work. If his IQ is slightly higher than hers, it will work. Too large an IQ gap either ways, and it will be frustrating and should be avoided.
Just good looking women don’t get approached. She needs to have virtuous inner beauty being reflected through her face.
Dating should be fun but mate hunting is work. Enjoy when on a date but hunting for someone worthy enough to go a date with is pain.
Those who have dominating mother and submissive father have not really seen correct gender dynamics.
Be shy but don’t be ashamed of your sexuality. Embrace your sexuality but in the right way – the trad way and not the liberal way. The trad way can be adjusted for the times.
Make your reproductive drive to act as the willpower and energy source to approach interests. Need to have the hunter mentality, shamelessness and unperturbed mind to approach better in public, all the while being positive as most people are going to be a disappointment.
Ideally both are to bring their generational wealth to the marriage. Since hypergamy has been unleashed and propped due to woman empowerment, it is better that he has better generational wealth than hers. This, even if it’s a loss for him as if he has a sister than he is losing his inheritance share due to feminist times wherein she gets half the inheritance but he isn’t receiving equal inheritance from his wife’s side as she would have married up.
Better to prioritize and mate hunt at locations where intelligent people can be found. IQ levels needs to match, and also two people at same intelligence level connect better. With intelligence gap, it is difficult to even connect or feel attracted.
Love is inspired and cannot be demanded. Who can give Love ? High value people who are family oriented. Who inspires Love ? High value people who can inspire devotion in the other.
If he is not ruthless, he will be defeated by evil. If he is not kind, he will be destructive. He needs to be kind and ruthless.
High value people are not found chilling or sitting at cafes.
Social media has upped the want or expectation of living an exciting life. It affects the value of a man more than a woman.
The dating market in the last 15 years has rewarded extroverts and those people with jobs which are public facing. Introverts and knowledge based career driven people have suffered.
The plain Jane woman shouldn’t be clumsily dressed, and then she can be seen as attractive and being a wife material.
You want a man you makes you feel as the most beautiful woman.
You shouldn’t want him if you feel he doesn’t find you irresistibly physically attractive. Raw attraction threshold needs to be crossed for both the gender but matters more on a woman due to sexuality differences.
Since women get same to almost same amount of inheritance, her generational wealth is somewhat important as a mate consideration and when the economic growth is over and the wealth has been funneled to stock market and likes benefitting Boomers. She has to being her Boomer’s wealth to marriage.
Lack of avenues to pursue and recognize achievement has robbed Gen Z Men of confidence.
There are many components to desirability but there is something about a person who is just overall feels right. So one compromises on desirable traits.
She will be tested for her actions matching her words. Low quality women get filtered out. The woman who says something and does something else, will get dropped. She is not mentally tuned right.
She needs to be obsessed with the way she makes him feel over the way he makes her feel. Since this is not the natural line of thinking, she needs to drill this in her head.
There are many factors that go into attraction, which go into making a person being at a desirable level.
You are hunting for a worthy man to own and use you and to whom your body and mind belongs to but this man must make you feel has his most prized possession. You want to be loved, cherished and adorned but for that you have to give away your power and control to him for his care and leadership. He has to win your trust for this to happen.
Malls are not the location to mate hunt. Singles are hardly seen. 1. Regular Mall : Too many useless people come spoiling the environment. 2. High end Mall : Liberal crowd, materialistic and spoilt women.
He is not interested in sitting and interacting with Gen Z liberal loser crowd. Ditch your loser friends.
The best of women today are close to their trad minded parents and particularly their trad minded father who themselves are few. This however becomes a hindrance to her mate hunting success in the current liberal world. She has to be proactive with her mate search as financially secure worthy men are extremely few and that she cannot depend on her father or the traditional ways of mate hunting to find him.
A scantily dressed virgin woman is still marriageable but a modestly dressed non – virgin woman is not.
If a man is from upper class, he is obviously not going to marry a woman from lower class. But an intelligent middle class high value woman works for him. He is a fool if he limits himself on the basis of class and community when worthy marriageable women left are few. But a woman from upper class has her choices limited due to her hypergamous nature.
Random approach : A liberal male looking for a hookup will have it 100X easier than a man looking for a wife material. He just cannot approach an easy lay, and that wife material appearing women are few who have boundaries.
Random public approach : Different locations around the world need different approach strategies.
Random public approach : A decent appearing woman needs to get approached even if she is with her friends. Such women are few and opportunities cannot be wasted. Regret is a horrible feeling.
Many can’t even differentiate between romance, infatuation and love. Do you like this person so much, feel sexually attracted to and see as a life long partner, that you care about the well being of this person ? This is Love. Do you want to be devotional towards this person ?
Shouldn’t go on a date to a location wherein you don’t like the liberal vibe. It doesn’t go with your core, feels fake and so off.
Find someone on whose team you can be, and with the mindset of “We against the World” protected by our Karma as civilization takes an upswing.
Those who have beautiful souls need a mate who has the same.
There is a higher probability of an introverted woman being a virgin than an extroverted woman especially in the current times. Extroverted women are better wife material but she needs to open up to him and reflect not being dull.
The right match feels like the two know each other from a long time and right from the start one must pretend so as to judge chemistry better.
Her modesty in her wear matters and not on what choice of clothes she is wearing.
Gen Z family oriented women will pair good with family oriented Millennial men. It’s not possible to have trad gender dynamics without the age gap. Also, there are no men left in Gen Z.
Don’t bother with liberals. Consider them a different species.
For Women in India : India has the worst date to marry scenario in the world. There is archaic traditionalism mixed with hyper liberalism. Women stay with their parents but are empowered. Women cannot be easily approached in public. Men are seen as creeps by default and she can create an issue in public if she doesn’t like being approached instead of politely declining and the feminism brainwashed public which will support her. There is a fear of feminist laws and cellphone recording. This is not as much a big issue for degenerate liberal men as it for trad minded men as the former will approach liberal appearing woman who care less. All this, when there are liberal women dressing like whores in public especially upper class women which almost all are, and when there are dating apps like tinder. All this, when the least civilized parasitic masses are having 2 children in an overpopulated region, and due to whom the most civilized and intelligent are not having children. It is also more difficult to make out the financial class of a woman until she opens her mouth. There is less easy filter to judge a woman’s background as more people wear similar clothes and are more fashionable. Urban India has one of the lowest percentage of happy women along with being the least approach worthy. Those women who share biodata in community groups need to be giving their phone number or email so a man interested can reach you directly instead of your parents. It is cringe to involve parents in this era ! Family oriented Women in India should aim to settle abroad. Hunt for a NRI or make use of your generational wealth to move out. Since sustainability driven feminism exists in all livable palaces in the world, it’s better to live where there is higher GDP per capita.
For Western Women: The best bet for a western women is to find someone close to being a high value man is finding someone who gives value to the not so good libertarian ideology but which is still better than conservative and leftist ideologies. Libertarian with conservative leaning is the best choice to settle for, and such an ideology would be closest to High IQ Conservatism like Jainism.
Consider conservative masses and leftists (includes feminists) as different species, and not deal with them.
Find someone who is committed to conservative consciousness no matter where the future era takes us.
Can get confusing whether she is tricking him into believing she is his match or that she likes him that she is adapting and mimicking his mindset.
Winters are depressing, and mating season ends by November. Spring is the best time to mate hunt. Need to be ready in February to be ready to go full throttle as March approaches.
“I am not allowed to give out of number”. Unless she isn’t interested and making an excuse, it is quite a dumb corporate rule to follow by a woman working at retail which could have been life altering for her. At best, he will reply jokingly with something like – ” But I am allowed to take your number”. If she still says no, he will politely say bye and leave.
Learn gender dynamics from high value couples in their late 30s or early 40s who are having a child or two, and not from liberal dog parents in their 20s and 30s.
If you can objectively evaluate your mother to not be a good woman but consider yourself to be one, you need to keep her at a distance as you date, and more so after marriage, as not only will she create a negative impression but also she will hamper your relationship from being successful.
Her financial investments matter. She should be overlooking her and her family’s investments. She has to financially savvy that reflects she can survive on her own. What if he is to die early ?
You shouldn’t be on hinge but should be outside, so you can approach or get approached.
Imagine liking someone who enjoys watching Netflix – essentially feminist make – believe propaganda. A conservative would feel an emotion of disgust with the liberal setting of the movies.
Without patriarchy, and with feminism along with sustainability driven propaganda, marriage doesn’t work for losers. Only high value people need to marry. Liberals are unfit for marriage, and patriarchy was an artificial conservative state created by high value men for the benefit of others.High value people left worthy of marriage are at 1%.
While dating, one shouldn’t be having the need to discuss on the becoming of the two individual’s wealth after marriage, and rather it should be natural union of wealth taking place with the union of two lives that comes with marriage.
He will select the least crazy woman he can find.
Share your insecurities with him.
Weddings have become cringe fest. Better to have a simple wedding with close loved ones attending.
Is she a virgin due to her values/wanting to save herself for him/nature OR was she just busy with her career or life/didn’t get the opportunity/is introverted ?
Most women are not actively looking for marriage and becoming a mother, and this idea has been replaced with focusing on career and being a slut. A man’s job is to approach worthy looking women and leave the rest to destiny.
A part of your day should be spend in mate hunting and a part in handling finances.
Being approached : she has to appear sensible.
Advise him as he mentors you.
Non – virgin women are for liberal men who want such women and for low value males who have no option but to settle.
You are not going to find a trad masculine who isn’t self employed. Work environments are feminist environment in which no man can thrive nor is willing to be in one. Hunt right.
Both need to be enjoying figuring each other out.
Be more direct with your conversation. Hinting can come across as being passive aggressive.
Approaching : One has to let many good looking people go as they may not be comfortable talking with a stranger, are not compatible or that they maybe in a relationship and don’t want to show interest.
Approach : He needs to discern between a woman being friendly and being interested.
Approaching : Once in a while a man encounters a rude bitch. ‘Hi’ is the best start to a conversation and interest check, after guessing her nature being reflected on her face and being deemed worthy of approaching.
One way to get better knowing your market value is by comparing yourself to others in a public setting. It will help to build confidence.
You want to be a submissive lover girl with female ego to a dominant lover boy with male ego.
He acts like mostly like a father and partially as a son to a woman who acts mostly like a daughter and partially like a mother to him.
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