Being a Love Object

Pointers to becoming a love object to a high value man and becoming his muse, adjusting traditional femininity for sustainability driven world, and for becoming a better woman –

• A woman needs to learn to control her mind and operate more with logic, and not allow emotional turbulence to get build up, and for this practicing Meditation and absorbing wisdom will help in being calm, composed and grounded. She needs to have her mind operating in duality of ascetic mindset and worldly mindset. While Ascetism is asexuality, she needs to be traditionally femininity for the worldly life. She is to be a monk role playing a woman. Get to having a such a mind here.
  • No woman can be a high value woman without being spiritually grounded but being spiritual and childless is a failure in worldly sense.
  • The emotional line of thinking stays even for High IQ sharp women, something which she has to learn to limit.
  • A woman deludes herself to create situations in her mind that seems to be beneficial to her but this is playing on ignorance which eventually hurts, so it is better to seek truth, accept reality, be detached and then live positively.
  • Understand your ayurvedic psychological personality types and win over the negatives and imbalances; more here.
• A woman has to remain emotionally virgin and not just a virgin, till she meets the right man for marriage. If a woman thinks of having a boyfriend instead of a husband, it reflects being ideologically captured by liberalism or is a liberal by nature.
• Women are socially aware but conformist by nature. She should be fast in adapting to changes but adapting does not mean to conform but rather means to strategize to changes and safeguarding one’s self. Women not grounded in good conservative consciousness get destroyed by mainstream liberal culture.
• Have to continuously judge all that which is out there in the liberal world so as to reject that which is not congruent to traditional femininity adjusted for the current times.
• The trend of early puberty onset in young women is evolution at work adjusting for promiscuous environment and lowering life expectancy.
• A college degree like of accountancy is useful as knowledge gained is useful in the real world and reflects having above average IQ, after which then she needs to accelerates her life of becoming a wife by focusing on husband hunting. Every job a woman holds is due to affirmative action as for every position out there, a man also available who can do the same job as opposed to someone mimicking to be a man and who has been raised to pretend to be man and propped up by the feminist society.
• A woman is born feminine, and her femininity needs refinement and cultivation as she grows up, and her job is to preserve her femininity while learning to age gracefully.
  • Ideally a woman has to be protect herself from the harshness of the life so as to retain her innocence and not become bitter with life that will rob lively femininity out of her, but she cannot also remain ignorant of the cruel world and existence that will harm her, creating a paradoxical situation. By living a life based on intelligent wisdom will help her to a some extent in preserving her femininity that comes through innocence. Also, it is better to compromise on losing innocence and being grounded in reality than being innocent and delusional. Innocence on a woman is only attractive when combined with appearing intelligent and virtuous.
  • A woman has to learn to be strong woman without breaking her femininity, and for which she needs to be grounded in right consciousness.
• Build a good personality.
  • Have values, taste, class, polished mannerism, cultural rootedness, being aware of current affairs, absorbing wisdom, being street smart, capable, soft – spoken, sober, polite, humble, fun loving, cheerful, calm, grounded, shy, cute, innocent, chaste, sweet, kind and graceful.
  • A beautiful woman has a beautiful mind, and titles of “Beautiful” and “Pretty” are earned, beyond the luck factor of inheriting good genetics including of personality traits. She needs to undergo intense grooming which includes developing a good aesthetic sense and taking good care of health. The more difficult part is developing a beautiful mind which requires absorbing wisdom and cultivating virtues and hence there are many good looking women but “Beautiful women” are rare. Purity in appearance should be reflecting on the purity inside.
  • Be more of maturely cute, and less of childish cute or silly cute.
  • Be cheerful and happy; your presence should be source of delight to others.
  • Bubbly, zesty and talkative women are more attractive.
  • Female philosophers always fall short but their interest in philosophy makes them attractive.
  • Submissive women appear feminine but create a doubt whether they are capable to survive in this world and raise children in this cruel and harsh existence. They also appear more estrogen influenced and slave to their emotions. They also conform to society easily and which is deadly for the current times. Dominant women appear that they can fight the world but a man cannot pair with her due to more clashes and which is unfavorable for the current feminist times, and they also carry less of feminine aura but on the positive they appear to be more fun in bed. While Submissive women are easily influenced into being feminists as they are conformists, dominant women see feminism as a way to thrive in their truer nature so embrace it. The best of women are in between dominant – submissive spread wherein they carry enough balance of testosterone and estrogen to be sharp in thinking but also can be submissive towards their man.
  • Find role models in women – the ones who are virtuous and trad minded. There are various acceptable personalities & positive traits can be picked up from different women, and you don’t have to become someone you are not as long as you are rightly aware that your personality is fine or that some particular trait doesn’t go well with your core.
  • A woman’s best curve is her smile.
  • Learn to be responsible for your actions and your life.
  • A woman’s inner femininity and charm can get expressed through facial expressions.
  • A soulful dancing woman can enchant and bewitch an entire audience.
  • Avoid laughing out uncontrollably in public.
  • Believing in Astrology and Zodiac personalities is a female defect, and this is true even for High IQ women; a woman needs to come out of this.
  • A woman who has strong political opinions is not being a feminine woman.
  • Modernity promotes narcissism, so ensure not to adopt narcissistic traits and be mindful not to appear as a narcissist in pictures.
  • The opposite gender influences and shapes one’s mindset. Men also understand women, adapt and become better men.
  • Don’t hate other women, and also learn to appreciate pretty women.
  • Have zero male friends.
  • High value women have their Social media account on locked privacy mode, and they don’t give away their full face photos as profile pictures on social media. Instagram is for attention whores.
  • A woman looks her best when her natural beauty shines and she appears simple and pure with having some aesthetic sense, and by being fashionable it makes her appear conceited. Simplicity in appearance before marriage while mate hunting, and then she can be elegantly fashionable after marriage.
  • Don’t wear cartoon and leopard print, don’t dye hair, don’t wear shorts, and nail polish shouldn’t be black and such color.
  • Don’t show cleavage and don’t do duck face pout.
• Being a Love Object : There are limits to be accepting of a woman’s behavior and lifestyle that are not in congruent with traditionalism, and her overall mental package decides her worth with taking into consideration that we are living in saturated feminist – liberal times, and that their are certain factors that can never be accepted, and that are boundaries and limits a woman shouldn’t have crossed if she wants to be seen as a love object. A woman has to be more conservative than her man for a successful relationship and the high value woman brings a host of things including her great personality and inner traditional femininity to the man, and she needs to love herself before expecting a man to love her. Since patriarchy doesn’t exist, she needs to learn to be appealing to a man who can mentor her into being better and put her into the role of a wife and mother.
• High value women are always improving themselves overall.
• Happy or blissful family oriented virgin feminine women left are rare and these women have a beautiful soul, with the rest of women being feminists of varying degrees.