Date to Marry

Date to Marry pointers for High Value Women to find a High Value Man –

No high value person has ever thought of joining dating apps like tinder.
1st date : To have fun and to just check if values match at broader level to want a second date to actually know the person better.
High quality people like to live in harmony with nature.
Judge mentally each other’s net worth, and not income.
Does he love to tease you ?
Becoming a parent should be limited to a worthy few, out of which who can afford to raise a child with their generational wealth.
Reflect being wise.
Work with him to make a relationship happen.
He should be giving you sleepless nights.
Reflect having the ability to adapt and adjust.
Don’t be excessively opinionated.
A man should be understanding of her feelings and emotion driven mind, but he doesn’t want an emotional wreck.
Reflect being a pleasant company.
The burden is on Her, to reflect that she has remained chaste.
She changes for him, and He doesn’t change for her.
He is the guru, and She is the student.
” I want to be a great mother ” and ” I can’t wait to be a mother ” should be the mindset while dating.
You attract your reflection and kind.
While love is the meeting of traditional masculinity with traditional femininity, romance is the expression of this love.
Praise him to others.
A couple that inspires others.
Marriage is for high value naturally trad women, and not for feminist women who think they are trad or want to become a wife or want love.
High value mates strongly value loyalty, so reflect as such.
Reflect being obsessed with babies.
Understand him and his true nature, and this not through his impression being created in your mind, as it creates a false impression.
He should believe that he is god’s gift to mankind. She should want to worship him as her god.
Undo influences of feminism to get to the right gender dynamics to allow for a relationship to blossom.
There are few people who are worthy of marriage left, so when you bump into one, you cannot afford to lose out on the opportunity to ask for a date, and while dating not lose out on getting commitment.
He should be proud of himself. She should be proud of him. She should want him to be proud of her.
Don’t underestimate the effect of praising a man has on him.
A woman having a sense of humor is a plus factor.
Do you want to dedicate your life in service of this person ?
He wants a woman who can grow alongside him.
Search for a man for whom you will be the most beautiful woman.
A good connection feels like knowing each other from a long time.
She adopts to his culture.
He should be strongly opinionated.
She should be excited to talk about herself to him.
Adjusted trad masculinity/femininity for the post modern society needs to be sort after and be reflected.
She amalgamates into him to create an union.
Do you want to be devoted to this person ?
Don’t expect him to be chivalrous from the start, and being chivalrous comes from within a man which can only be inspired.
Only few people to be worthy mates, so the bad experience of dating most doesn’t matter.
Responsible and ambitious High IQ men marry late.
He wants to be feel flattered.
Do you like this person keeping the looks aside ?
Do you feel desperate to have his children ?
Proactively create a love story.
Match from a broader level : His IQ = Her IQ, His Beauty = Her Beauty, His Net worth = Her Net worth, His Values = Her Values, His Masculinity = Her Femininity.
A Man will never compromise on : 1. Her lack of virginity, including emotional one. 2. Being past her fertility window ( 30 years ).
Meet your life partner in the real world and not by being matched online.
His Queen. Her King.
He makes Her into becoming a better woman. She inspires Him into becoming a better man.
Better to be dressed modestly than be mistaken to be a slut.
Find a person who is serious about procreating, and is willing to put in the hard work and fight it out in the current tough environment.
There is a limit to a man’s patience, before he decides it is not worth it to work on her, and that it is better off for him to find a more quality woman.
Be presentable with a good aesthetic sense, such that your man is proud to hold to.
If he does not give you sleepless nights, he is not for you.
Make him feel masculine and show admiration for his masculinity.
A smiling woman instantly becomes more attractive.
Present yourself as being loyal, patient, kind, compliant and docile.
It is things like a woman’s graceful laugh that captivates a man.
Inquire as to how he handles tough phases in life ?
A woman should partly incite similar emotions in a man, to the one that a baby incites in a woman. Cute and Innocent, get loved and protected. Bring out his paternalistic emotions, to work for you.
Eye contact: Test his dominance, his interest and make him fall for you. Stare lovingly in his eyes, if he has shown liking & maintain the eye contact with him. If he is dominant, he would maintain the eye contact and wait for you to break it.
Present as being cheerful and happy.
Find a man more cunning than you.
His grasp of reality, is one of the measure of his leadership ability.
Sense of humor in a man is good trait to seek, but should be a less prioritized one.
Avoid trying to correct him.
Find a man who has been through a lot and then returned back to his saner state. This man has seen suffering and returned back with wisdom.
A man should have experience with dealing with evil.
Does he inspire you to become a better woman ?
She is his solace.
A good woman is attracted to a cunningness in a man. A good man is repulsed by cunningness in a woman.
Do you see a mentor in him ?
He wants her support. She wants to support him.
A religious person does not translate to being a good person.
Learn to take rejections.
A person having integrity is a person having loyalty.
She pursues him by making him pursue her, and if he is not interested then he will not take it forward.
A woman seeks emotional stability in a man, who will help her pass through storms of emotions that run inside her mind. However, a man wants a calm and composed woman.
If you cannot admire and respect him, then he is not for you.
A woman feels nervous in the company of the man she likes.
Find someone who yearns to live in the past era of simplicity and decency.
Don’t act too intelligent on a topic he is not aware of.
Do you see a father of your child in him ?
A good connection feels effortless.
Is he the man for whom you want to leave behind everything and start a new journey with ?
Is he a problem solver ? Does he have solution for most problems ?
Dating begins as a transaction and ceases to be with getting married/falling in love.
His future matters. Her past matters.
He has a vision for his life and a role for her that fits into this vision.
Don’t be mysterious.
She enters his life and makes it better.
A man either has it in him or he doesn’t.
Do you feel safe from others around him ?
Is he ruthless towards achieving his goals ?
Traditional femininity attracts traditional masculinity.
Are you being used as a target practice by a man wanting to improve his dating skills ? Identify time wasters.
Is he head – strong and does he have a strong will power ?
Do everything to earn his trust.
Don’t play hard to get as it makes her appear less attractive besides ruining gender dynamics.
Marriage is now simply two people raising their child on their own, and without much family support in an atomized society.
Does this person’s family have a good reputation ?
The narcissist needs to get dropped.
Is this person wanting to be devoted to you ?
A person should be having male/female ego, but as a human should be egoless.
Love is the emotion of civilized procreation.
Bring the boyish playfulness out of him.
Learn to judge beyond feelings.
He cherishes Her, as She respects him.
Create a good impression by reflecting not being active on social media or/and still better by not having an Instagram account.
1st date : Begin at a coffee shop, and then go for a stroll, better if in a park.
Are you both having fun ?
Have fun figuring him out.
The match of two egos, wherein she submits her ego to his.
Build some connection within few dates before his mystery runs out.
Step 1: Understand the types of men. Step 2 : Understand the type of man you want. Step 3 : Learn to be appealing to him. Step 4: Hunt for him.
Don’t make it appear that he is an option, as it will end when he senses it.
When she likes him, she tries to impress him and which appears obvious to him.
1st date : Be flirty to cut friendzone vibe.
Dominance is a man’s submission to Her.
He assures her that she will be fine with him and he won’t let any harm come to her.
Do you both enjoy spending time with each other ?
His name is a reward she gets for being worthy of it, and reflects his ownership over her.
Most people have given up on raising a family, a percentage of whom are even well off. If you want to raise a family in this era, you are from the minority. Keep going on and not be disheartened, as the world needs fewer people, so let this factor bring some positivity.
Since daughters get near equal inheritance share due to feminist redistribution policy, she needs to bring her share to the marriage eventually, and for the purpose of raising a family.
By not being manipulative, she earns his trust.
He has to talk to her emotions, and She has to talk to his logic.
After judging a person well, one needs to decide on wanting to accept the flaws and move forward.
A woman who isn’t a degenerate but dresses as one so as to appear socially savvy and modern, does a self – goal.
To search for a person who is worthy of being invested.
A person’s right decision making ability should be tested.
She impresses him explicitly.
Be a good woman to get the love of a good man.
He should be ambitious and a man on a mission.
She will tested for intelligence. No man wants a dumb woman. His IQ = Her IQ
Both are a prize to the other.
A man loves a woman more than the reverse, and its okay as the woman redirects her love towards their children more.
Give love to receive love.
Can you love him ? And not the idea of him ? And not the idea of love ?
A woman lacking baby bearing hips appears less attractive.
Chemistry going right – When he scolds her, and she does not mind.
Vulnerability —> Trust —> Love.
The spark is either there or it isn’t.
Reflect & hunt : Virtuous + Trad + Feminine/Masculine.
Someone who is resilient, cheerful and has zest for life, are plus factor for a person, as life is a continuous struggle, and these traits matter.
Every married woman is going to be living in his rented place or in his parent’s house until inherited.
A woman who enjoys cooking, is into healthy food and likes to experiment and serve, would be a catch.
Enquire on the kind of daughter he will raise, and it will give an idea on his plan for you.
Should be holding the belief of ‘made for each other’.
A man can continue conversation more boldly with a woman he has approached if she appears more friendly.
There is a shade of Father – Daughter dynamic between the two. A man looks at a woman partially like a woman looks at a small child.
Large age difference brings out gender dynamics better.
Date with the mindset that if it works out well and good, and if not you are still fine with it while being open to be rejected along with giving your best.
Vibe should be relaxed but sexual.
Successful men are short of time and want to get into relationship faster once they are ready emotionally and financially, and they don’t like to spend away time in dating and courtship like the typical less ambitious man indulges in since his college days. He would also have a ready model for his wife to be molded into and an action plan for his wife to take on.
Young beautiful women shouldn’t be doing jobs especially like cashier level and wasting their potential.
Initiate and hold eye contact if he is shy or otherwise and seems interested in you.
Be a sexual being, and not be asexual.
If she hangs out with her loser friends including male ones in a social group, she is less likely to find a high value man this way.
If a man approaches you even if it seems an excuse and takes your number for any other reason without mentioning for a date, realize it and play along.
Be with a person with whom you can do things which are embarrassing and dumb.
A person cannot fall in love without falling in love with the person’s mind.
Conversation topic : TV shows and movie habit watching. Some people like to spend time watching and some just aren’t interested. It’s not a deal breaker.
He dates to judge her, and not save her from herself.
A man has to reach a state of yearning for a high value woman such that when he sees one, he can be way more bold in getting her to talk.
Imagine not presenting yourself as a cheerful woman in these depressing times to stand out. A woman who looks dead in her eyes is less likely to get approached.
Imagine not being at your fittest while mate hunting.
The gum chewing woman doesn’t get approached.
Tattoo = Loser
Mating market has now gone global.
The vast majority of low quality women of current times kills a man enthusiasm to approach.
He should approach her even at her work if outside of corporate, and even if she is with her co worker and see the direction his excuse conversation starter goes.
He should be clean shaven.
If the date is going well and if interested, initiate and hold eye contact.
Spring and Summer are the best time for mate hunting.
He cannot know if she is single or in a relationship as he random approaches her.
When you are single , don’t get disturbed looking at young families but rather see them as inspiration.
Most people are stressed out, and which doesn’t help in random approaching in public and taking it forward.
He doesn’t want your sibling especially brother interfering in his life.
Effort goes in mate hunting to find a quality mate.
Foremost comes the physical attractive pass, then character and values, and then comes chemistry check.
Understand the person by asking about and understanding the person’s life experience that has shaped that person’s mind and outlook to life.
Initiate approaching, and not wait to be approached.
Love yourself before expecting someone to love you.
Don’t bother with anyone lacking in self – respect.
First be blissful or happy, and then date. Being tired, depressed, in a bad mood or simply not being ready to be random approached, is not going to help.
Dating is difficult for most men and for naturally more masculine/fiery women. They need to put in more effort in this feminist era to find a better mate to appear worthy of commitment.
Don’t insult him when being playful as he needs to maintain the respect for correct gender dynamics.
If you are going to see every man approaching you as someone who is approaching for short term interest, then you cannot enter into a relationship. Learn to discern his intention.
His job is to approach. Her job is to be either interested or reject him.
Account for some age difference, otherwise you won’t find a good match.
There are more High value men than High value women, but from those men only a certain percentage are remaining who can provide. This makes the job of forced empowered high value women to be as difficult as those of high value men of finding a mate.
She can forget finding a high value man if she isn’t comfortable being random approached, unless she gets lucky otherwise.
Some women are used for dating practice.
He should interrupt her even when she is on the phone in public and talk to her.
Judge for character and honesty to establish trust, and don’t fall for charm.
Values should be similar, and then she adapts to his values.
Compromise but not settle.
A secure high vale man doesn’t feel any woman is out of her league.
Judge for character and honesty to establish trust, and don’t fall for charm.
A person maybe marriage material but not compatible or there would be a lack of chemistry, and this person has to be let go.
High value women are rare and he doesn’t want to mess up when he finds one, but he still has to maintain an abundance mindset which isn’t true.
Bold women are more positively responsive with getting random approached which means they can get into a relationship faster.
A good man cannot get a good woman without being manipulative at the start.
The fickle minded woman who is unsure of him gets dropped.
Find commonality to connect better.
Let natural vulnerability assist you in appearing more attractive.
Think of the ways you can complement him through your femininity.
Being able to have chemistry from a range of acceptable personality types means having a larger selection pool.
Two high value mates don’t need more than 4 months to make a decision to go for marriage.
The best of women are innocent and dress simple.
Make it clear from the start that you only date to marry.
If the person doesn’t have some degree that naturally reflects on having a decent IQ, then test for intelligence.
There is no co – relation between a person being religious and being virtuous.
When one settles, there may remain lack of desire which gives to the idea of duties of husband and wife. When true desire exists, gender roles are more natural.
A person who lacks concern for the opposite gender is a person not to bother with. This person cannot love.
Invoking his love is much more difficult than invoking lust.
Don’t discuss children during the initial dates as you want to stress on chemistry but do so after a few dates, and you want a person who has a strong desire for family in this era.
Masculinity is a burden and Femininity is the respite for this burden.
Daddy’s princess will remain his princess and not become a man’s queen. Keep your father at a distance.
Her figure is a deciding factor for approaching. Approaching takes time and energy and he wants to be discreet.
A poorly dressed woman kills the desire of approaching.
If he decides to approach then he should be going for the kill.
The idea of marriage is now dead but if you let the bad reality affect you, then there is no hope in succeeding to a successful marriage. Keep it positive after accepting the reality.
Raising a family in this era is only for those who have the resources and the will to fight it out all along.
Don’t get tempted based on looks or other factor that reflects the person is not marriage material. Also resist the temptation to think that this type of person can be reformed. This era requires greater scrutiny and filters.
Generational wealth of both + Good Chemistry, matters in this era for a successful marriage and being able to raise a child.
Since almost everyone wears the same type of clothes and brands, one cannot guess one’s financial status easily through their wear.
When approached, be relaxed.
Dating is a task but not to be taken as one.
Many high value women can be read off instantly through their face which reflects them being virtuous, cheerful, smart, submissive, feminine beyond being pretty.
So many high value women have undersold themselves because they did not move out from their mediocre social circle.
Hang out with losers, then end up marrying one. Only few good men are left who can provide and become a good father.
She passes on values to children, so her values and her moldability matters.
A woman coming from a wealthy family has limited options.
A humble young woman working at a grocery store is more appealing as a wife than a corporate careerist.
A man doesn’t want to feel like a creep if he second guesses or is hesitant approaching a woman and if she has seen him, including when he has passed her by and returns back to talk to her after making his mind.
A woman feels nervous in the company of man she likes, and this is okay.
Just because it appeared he had a good time with you on the date, does not mean he wants a second date as some people are polite not to give negative vibe, and one might as well enjoy the date when out.
Drop the ones holding strong nationalist or socialist political views.
Age difference is an issue only if one of them makes it an issue.
When she is out with her friend, her friend gives a reflection of her, which may not be true but it affects her image.
The man loves the woman more than the reverse, and which is fine as she focusses her love to the children more.
Just because it appeared he had a good time with you on the date, does not mean he wants a second date as some people are polite not to give negative vibe, and one might as well enjoy the date when out.
If being virtuous doesn’t reflect on his face, drop him.
Be thankful for his time.
A man’s gut instinct allows him to differentiate a low quality woman from a woman behaving badly to test him.
Don’t try to create a perfect love story as it will end in disappointment; just go with the flow.
A male feminist cannot be a mentor, and his lack of leadership means having children raised who will turn out to be failures in life. When he couldn’t even save himself, he cannot lead others.
Lust, Love and Romance are 3 different things which are interconnected. Lust – Physical attraction. Love – Strong emotional liking and attachment. Romance – Expression of Love. Two people should lust and love each other.
He should be able to manage her emotions.
There isn’t a high value person who isn’t romantic.
The era of a man making himself through a career or establishing a business like the older generations is over. As long as he working on some project that keeps him occupied and gives him a mission, its fine.
Her generational wealth matters and not the money she earns through her career. The careerist has no value left anymore, when the era of careerism is over.
Judge him and the date logically, and less based on feelings.
Where to find a Man ? There are men walking down the street. Beyond targeted locations like malls, don’t leave opportunity anywhere.
With marrying the right person, everything works. With marrying the wrong person, no amount of wisdom can lead to a successful marriage.
After a man has random approached a woman with an excuse conversation, he evaluates her nature with the talk, before deciding to show his interest.
He commits to the woman whose burden he is willing to take.
Just eye contact for a second or a slight smile helps in getting a man to approach you if it appears he is considering to and you are interested in him.
It sounds so wrong when someone mentions their drive for marriage is out of need for companionship or having children; it is better not to mention such. Date to love, enjoy someone’s company, share life experience and grow old with, then companionship need and raising a family goal, is solved on its own.
Date with the mindset that if it works out well and good, and if not you are still fine. You are open to be rejected while giving your best.
The biological end goal of marriage is well raised children and this should be kept at the back of mind while dating but the focus should be on chemistry.
When a man gets a woman in her prime, he can guide and mold her better but more importantly he can remember her beauty at her best as she ages and gets old. A man who doesn’t get a woman at her best will feel cheated and having undertaken an unfair deal.
Learn to discern between a man approaching you with non – relationship goal and being interested in you. When he invites you out to hang out when you are free, “know each other”, he isn’t interested in being “friends”.
The arrogant or less friendly appearing woman will get approached less; she may not be such but she can be giving the vibe of being one.
After getting the college degree, focus on husband hunting with whom you can raise a family with, and not be a fool who is job hunting. Careerism is anyways dead, and generational wealth matters.
Being family oriented matters more than a person’s trad – liberal orientation.
Don’t be obsessed with types. A good character and certain other factors are essential after which check on vibe and chemistry.
A man can continue conversation more boldly with a woman he has approached if she appears more friendly.
Initiate and hold eye contact if he is shy or otherwise and seems interested in you.
If a man approaches you even if it seems an excuse and takes your number for any other reason without mentioning for a date, realize it and play along.
Bold woman who talks more openly with a man who has approached her will have better success than a more reserved woman.
Being a trad type who is close to her family is a liability now but being a trad who has adjusted to the post modern world and can keep her family at a distance is an ideal choice.
So many opportunities have been lost by women in getting approached because she was on the phone talking or glued to the screen.
No two men are same, and no two women are same. Recognize yourself, and find your type.
Only few people have the perseverance and patience that it takes to lead and raise a successful family.
Without patriarchy, losers indulge in bf – gf. Reject anyone with a past.
A simple Hi from the man can be helpful to gauge a woman’s nature and interest after she has been approached.
Everyone knows that the marriage laws are set against men. And no man wants to risk marrying the wrong woman. The onus is on her to reflect being marriage worthy.
1st date : Don’t lie but don’t also avoid mentioning anything that may not get you a 2nd date. 1st date is mostly just vibe check and to have fun.
When he approaches her and chitchats, he is gauging her interest also before deciding his next move.
5th Date is a good time to reveal any heath issues if any.
Searching for a virgin family oriented woman is like searching for a diamond in a coal mine, but it has to be done.
The woman lacking in feminine aura will not get approached.
There shouldn’t be any pressure on a date to have fun, and it should just feel natural.
More than anything, a woman’s virginity matters now, as it’s rare. Rest of things, a man can compromise with.
You are searching for your type and not any person.
Who is a Man ? One who can think logically.
A virgin woman should reflect on her virginity to appear high value.
The best target for High value men is to hunt for 23 – 27 women as they are more likely to be virgin and wanting to be a mother, are not settling, and are more moldable.
If a man doesn’t marry a woman having an equivalent generational wealth, he is compromising in a big way. Generational wealth of both matters in current times.
The woman hanging out with her low quality friend is less likely to get approached. Need to be in the company of high quality people.
You don’t need your liberal parent’s approval once you have decided to marry someone.
Since daughters get equal inheritance share as sons due to feminist loot but women marry up, she has to bring her generational wealth to the marriage.
If he had the time in life to have a girlfriend, it reflects on his lack of focus on becoming successful and a liberal orientation towards relationship which is negative. Loser.
There is nothing wrong with Gen Z women looking for a man with way higher status who has generational wealth that he can provide. This is maximizing her biological opportunity.
Falling in love is to be a controlled process in which one judges, has trust and then opens heart. This way one doesn’t fall in the trap of losers.
The hot woman doesn’t get approached, rather the beautiful ones do. The beautiful woman can be hot for her man only once she is in a relationship.
There are really no men left in Gen Z who can be truly traditionally masculine husband. Gen Z women need to find from the few of such millennial men left.
Most couples are losers who are into bf – gf relationship or married and have no financial future. You don’t want to end up like them.
When you sense a man has approached you with intention and if interested, make him feel comfortable as he chats to not make him feel like a creep.
Understand that the feminist society and laws, along with cellphones with camera and internet, makes it more difficult for a man to be more bold and be less in a relaxed state, with approaching and initialing with a woman.
With a man approaching and chatting with a woman, in addition to judging her and her interest in him, he also needs to feel excited with her to be asking her out.
Wife material have a certain look on their face, which other women lack.
The man who understand women knows when she is consciously or unconsciously testing him, and he simply just plays along and lets it pass.
Have the mindset of wanting 3 children even if you want 1 or 2.
Find a man who can navigate through society and life in the feminist times of present and future.
Which from these two woman has a better chance of getting a high value man ? 1. Working as a cashier at Whole foods. 2. Working as a cashier at Dollar store.
No High Value Man is getting tricked by a woman who is faking femininity. A High Value Woman is naturally feminine.
Reflect being High value by reflecting hating on entire feminist ideology.
Low value women come up with manipulative tests to gauge his reaction. High value women do screening tests which are not insulting.
There are few women remaining who appear as an inspiration source to a man to even approach.
Since almost all women now have a past and are impure, a woman without a past needs to reflect on her high value.
Can he protect you from yourself ?
There is so much love a man has to give but only for the right kind of woman.
Reflect being devotion worthy.
The best of women are not active on social media.
A mother material matters more than anything.
Only a masculine man can be patriarch is current times as he needs to be a rebel to be one.
A traditionally masculine man attracts feminist women. He needs to identify and disengage with such women.
Hunt for the patriarch type of man who is well adjusted to the current times.
Only and only a traditionally minded man can be a good father.
Only a non – virgin woman can be offended when asked – ” Are you a virgin ? ” Only losers find this not socially acceptable to ask.
Only and only will to have a family, can trump all the negativities of low civilizational times which are going to remain.
If the common life goals of family formation doesn’t exist, don’t bother and try to convince someone to it.
The best hope for a family oriented man is to find a young woman who is not a feminist and can get her on the path towards family building and guiding her towards understanding traditional femininity.
Many 1st date won’t translate into 2nd date, and its okay.
Liberals love stand up comedy, and which acts as good filter to drop them.
She joins his life and leaves the liberal world behind including her liberal family.
Some women’s drive towards love is wanting to feel love and not actually love or see love as a step towards family formation.
Her job is to bring peace to his life.
90% of women are straightaway not marriage worthy.
Date time : State that you will pay for your food expenses before ordering, which creates a good impression.
Make the mission of finding a man whom you can love rather than of wanting to be loved.
Being spiritual means nothing if she isn’t family oriented.
Many women are dead from inside. They don’t reflect having life, and that they shouldn’t even be approached.
He wants a beautiful woman who can also be hot.
Many women settle for a man they don’t love, and hope to fall in with love him in future, which is unlikely to happen in the present era as it was possible earlier during patriarchal times with arranged marriage. You don’t want to be one.
Be mentally ready to go against your parents in order to marry your love, as they are unlikely to approve of it.
1st date it will be clear on wanting him as a lover or not.
He shouldn’t be on Instagram.
Imagine a High value Man falling in love with a woman who isn’t a virgin.
“Are you a Virgin ” ? is the way a high value man ascertains her virginity.
You want to be endorsed by your type of man.
High value couple are those who recognize that they have been raised in feminist society and can overcome it’s conditioning, to have a loving relationship and a stable marriage with well raised children.
There are only 1% of men and women remaining who are high value mates
Genuine Love should be there from both sides, otherwise it means there is one or both settling.
He should get her to reveal about herself while restricting sharing about himself.
Can you trust him to handle your portfolio, bank account and assets ?
1st and 2nd date : No physical contact of any kind and not to get emotionally tangled. 1st date is to have fun and to know on wanting a 2nd date. 2nd date is to scrutinize. Don’t want to get emotionally entangled, if it doesn’t work out.
1st Date : 1 Hour limit as it gets mentally exhausting.
Mate selection currently ultimately boils down to those who want children and those who don’t, and the culture and society is set at anti – natalism.
The clueless woman conflates being fashionable with being feminine.
He is not interested in interacting with your liberal parents beyond the minimum.
There are always some odd matches couples based on personality as can be perceived by a stranger.
Women who don’t appear cheerful or at peace on face, will never be seen as wife material.
There is nothing attractive about a woman obsessed with zodiac signs.
You can pretend to be like the masses of liberal couple to fit in but if you are not one by nature or culture or have recognized the higher truth, it will start killing you from inside.
If you come across an interesting personality online, you need to attempt to map that personality type in the real world, so that you are closer to finding your match in the real world.
Wanting to have a trad relationship but getting stuck mentally in the past times will lead to misery. Adjust traditionality to emerging modernity.
Getting into marriage tasks : 1. Understanding yourself and your goals. 2. Financially being ready to afford a child 3. Understanding society and relationship 4. Mate hunting for your type.
Society has become too atomized and small talk is dead. You have to make people talk.
If a woman couldn’t find a man to impregnate her during her most fertile ages, then she should give up on marriage. She had all time to the age of 30.
Unmissable wife material trait is reflection of happiness on her face.
Ask if ever created a profile on dating app and then based on the answer can drop.
It is impossible to find a traditionally masculine man without accounting for age difference gap, as it takes time to be acceptably successful, becoming a man, learning about relationship, preparing for the future world and being financially ready.
Visualizing someone as a parent before approaching or with being approached, is a good filter.
Can’t snag a high value man by spending your time in the company of loser peers, unless he is actively on the prole and spots you. Need to be at the right places.
He can have inherited wealth but if doesn’t know the way to grow it further or retain it, he can lose it. Nor can he guide his children to create wealth. His growth driven mindset matters.
Her fertility, age, intelligence, nature, beauty and values matters to a man looking to become a father. The arrogant, wealthy, careerist, feminist doesn’t get selected.
The best thing a man can do with approaching women is to specify that he only dates to marry, and for a woman to mention that she only dates to marry when approached.
Can’t bother with one who doesn’t have the hunger to become a parent.
Crying tendency is seen as of being an emotionally burdensome woman.
Two dominant personalities will create friction and thereby threaten marriage. It is a riskier proposition in feminist era. Excessively submissive women are attractive but gives a vibe that they won’t be capable to survive in this world and which makes them not appear wife material type partly. You want traditional masculinity attracting traditional femininity, and not really dominant attracting submissive.
Kindness should be reflecting on her face.
He will judge if she can keep a distance from her family especially her mother after marriage.
Since there is a shortage of wife and mother material, a man who should select such women over valuing chemistry or her fun loving.
If you come across a decent man, don’t lose the opportunity by not approaching him as there aren’t many left.
A true Trad natured person has strong disgust for liberals and feminism – liberalism. This is the way to identity a true trad – a worthy mate.
1st date : ” Are you a virgin ? ” is a question a man should ask.
If he cannot isolate you from your liberal family and friends, it cannot work out.
Your biggest hindrance to a successful marriage is your liberal family.
No man is going to keep relation with his mother-in-law if she a feminist or bitch type of woman. You yourself need to cutoff with her after marriage.
Need to have patience to find your type and match.
The gender dynamics between the two will be copied by your children.
Loyalty as a trait in a woman, has never mattered more than now.
Aiming to get validation from those who aren’t your type is the worst mistake one can make.
He triggers submission in her. She inspires him to lead.
A woman needs to be aggressive with her mate hunting as there are now few worthy men left who can provide. Go and approach like men have to.
One is effectively defeating the entire feminist movement of decades by entering into a trad marriage, and to get to that takes tremendous mental effort.
He shouldn’t be too strong early on indicating he is family oriented. Rather he should give the hints and judge her, her fit and the chemistry.
All women are feminist by Karma as we are living in feminist times. His ability to inspire & bring out femininity in her from her default feminist state decides on a relationship. But this will take her to be a source of inspiration to him. His ability to remove feminism from her, and her willingness to reject feminism and embrace femininity for him, determines if a trad relationship is happening or it ends for them.
A family oriented man cannot succeed with his goal until he is financially ready, is mentally prepared to take on the role, has learned refined masculinity, women and relationships, & has dated enough to go onto a relationship with the experience.
A man needs to have experience with women to succeed, something not true for women.
It’s his job to ask for the number but if he is hesitant or you are interested, just have courage and go for it
Number needs to be taken during the conversation and not after the conversation ends as it can lead to missed opportunities.
If a man is not interested in her career (& hence dual income (outdated idea)), then he should be interested in her generational wealth. But the quality women are so rare, that he would be willingly to let go even her financial status for one.
Quite stupid for a family oriented woman to limit mate selection based on her degree/area of study. An accountant can marry an engineer.
Since family oriented women are few and careerism doesn’t exist any longer for anyone to make life happen, a woman with work experience beyond few years is not attractive option for a trad minded man.
Start with judging the character of the person.
Its always good when it feels there is unlimited things to talk about to other.
Even with a random stranger with whom one person had 5 minutes of interaction, needs to feel that they know each other since ages.
He should be respectful but flirty.
Virginity is not associated with men as opposed to women as a man needs experience with women to succeed with a woman to enter a successful marriage.
Flirting is a necessary game to be played. She can even complement something about his looks.
Flirting during random approaching is much more challenging than when being on the 1st date, as when you are on a date there is already some sexual environment established but with approaching there is a unknown stranger in a public environment. It is more challenging for a man as he risks facing the feminist legal system if it doesn’t go right as well ruining his reputation. Flirting with random approaching is more difficult for dating to marry than random hookup need, as you are creating a love story that stays permanent and the person who might stay with you throughout your life.
Flirting is a necessary game to be played. She can even complement something about his looks.
The introvert woman becomes an extrovert with the right man.
After a man has approached woman with an excuse chat he needs to ensure that he cuts out the friend zoning by being flirty and showing his sexual interest in her before going for asking her number. He can simply continue to stare in her eyes and see her reaction. Does she blush ? He can complement something about her depending on the location risk factor. He can say that she is an interesting woman. When a man random approaches her, his approach has to be different to than when he is on the 1st date with her. He needs her to see a stranger as a sexual interest. He can randomly ask in between conversation if she is single.
Intense eye contact shows interest and cuts friend zoning.
If you loves you, he will guide you right and surely remove feminist influence out from you.
It is so exhausting chatting with women and letting the conversation go on only to realize when shown explicit interest that they have a boyfriend or are married. It is better that a man communicates his interest in her after a small chat and not waste his time with disloyal women unless they have friendzoned him and which is unlikely for the aura of a high value man. “If you are single and would be interested in knowing me, I would like to take down your number”. Loyal Women are rare nowadays. Too many married women or having a boyfriend talk to other men, which may not be directly sexual but that she speaks at length with such men who might tend to have an interest in her, makes it all wrong. Or that she chats with other men out of boredom with “interesting” men that can turn sexual or has some sexual undertones. Happens at universities and offices.
Too many young women have committed to low value men or men with no future or sad men with generational wealth. Or worst have a boyfriend who they may not marry.
She is looking for a father like figure. He is looking for a daughter like worthy woman to adopt.
You want someone who wants to stay away from the general infertile, childless, liberal masses. You want someone with a strong family formation drive.
After a man has approached you with starting a conversation, ask him questions to show your interest.
Men don’t pursue anymore is true as dating to marry is dead. If a man pursues you, he is interested in you.
There will always be few trad minded people. Don’t bother with liberals or liberal influenced losers.
Random approach to going to a date : 1. He approaches a woman with an excuse conversation and introduces himself. 2. He evaluates the conversation and her, the chance she might be interested in him.3. He expresses his interest by asking her interest in him and takes down her number. 4. He Whatsapps her. 5. He leads the conversation to a date.
Random approach linked questions to find connection: Where are you from ? What do you do ? What did you study ? What you name ? Surname ?
A gold digger is a settler. She settles with a low value man who falls for her, and a man she cannot love.
A woman taking guidance from elsewhere other than some spiritual guru or respected old man or so would feel attraction for that man, which makes it better for a woman to hunt for a husband who can guide her to life.
She gives her ownership to him. He owns her. She becomes his property.
If he fails in isolating her from her family, then the marriage cannot work. We are living in Anti – Marriage times, which necessitates keeping a distance from feminist – liberal society and masses.
He will need to convince her to bring her generational wealth to marriage to take care of expenses. It is unlikely to work as long as her parents are alive but he should attempt. He should also do everything to push her parents away from her. Men who want dual income household and so want a earning woman are living with outdated ideas or are from the masses who lack generational wealth. She needs to bring atleast some generational wealth to marriage. Most Gen Xer and Boomers are horrible or clueless parents with partial outdated thinking who hold wealth and won’t share it, when the current times calls for it so that their children can succeed with life.
There may not be a more beautiful sight for a family oriented man than watching a traditionally beautiful woman with her baby.
Don’t change yourself to appeal to liberals when you are a conservative, as you might end up losing your appeal to conservatives. Liberals don’t exist for you and they are an alien group, should be the mindset.
As your mentor, does it feel that he explains things so well ?
One’s mate choice reveals one’s own self largely. One is trapped by having to match with one’s own nature, and others will not work for the person. One’s partner is the reflection of the person, unless someone settled or is low on the sexual value or ignorant. The virtuous has to find a virtuous, and there is nothing that this person can do as this person will never be attracted who is higher on the vice scale.
Two conservatives living in post – conservative times, coming together to raise children who are not liberals, and hence not failures like almost all will grow up to be.
A strong conservative father used to be a positive indicator for marriage potential of a woman. That stopped mattering with the spread of feminism and the current times of saturation. Now, her ability to leave behind her family is positive.
Even though everything has become saturated and the policies being shaped are based on sustainability, does he have a vision for growth for himself ? Even if he has generational wealth, but is he capable of his own ? Has he achieved anything of his own ? These questions run through a high value woman’s mind.
Shouldn’t give up on spiritual centers, as it’s even worst elsewhere.
Random approach starting with excuse conversation is maximum 15 minutes. Ideal is 10 minutes.
Random approach – ” Do you find me attractive ?” is one of the questions he can pop depending on her flow of conversation and her interest.
Random approach – He can maximum try to build comfort, show he is a good guy, talk about his background, be explicit that he only dates to Marry and has no other intention, ask if she is sure if she declines, and after which he cannot pursue her further.
Social media addict will be dropped.
Tattooed people always find each other. Tattoo is a liberal mate marker.
The lower class/less intelligent environment is less educated and quicker to marry and have children, while it’s the opposite for upper class. This creates a problem for upper class men or more educated men as they don’t want aged careerist women and the good and intelligent women from lower class are already taken at their fertile age.
Random approach – A percentage of women are rude and a percentage are friendly.
She may get stunned with being shown interest after being approached, and he needs to build comfort to let her process the initiation and also avoid her declining if she is interested.
Many random approaches end in rejections. His ability not to face dejection with rejections defines his success.
He should be older but should be young by heart.
The societal culture of love and marriage is gone and not coming back. One must learn by oneself and hunt for a worthy mate who can transform into being a marriage material.
Even if a few rare people especially women are left worthy of marriage, keeping a negative mindset will not help to reach such women. Keeping it positive while understanding reality is the approach.
Approaching modern dating with holding onto conservative ideals is a tough task and there are rare worthy people remaining. The start should not be conservative mind driven, as such aligned environment doesn’t even exist anymore but the courtship should take a conservative path to lead it to marriage.
If you hold the belief that there are no conservatives left, then you will either give up or adapt to appeal to liberal minded, only to lose out on matching with the rare conservatives left.
He will test her on the way she handles disagreements.
Date to Marry with the goal to have children but the children you have should be the expression of the love for each other.
Since women lack femininity now, it takes now what would have been considered extremely feminine in the past to appear normal feminine and attractive.
Liberal parents = Liberal children –> Game over Karma of being a Liberal. Don’t marry a liberal.
The woman who hangs out with a friend who appear a liberal by her dressing, will also be assumed to be one, and less likely to get approached.
Liberal women attract liberal men. If you dress like a whore to fit into the post conservative society, you will miss out on the conservative men.
Holidays are the worst times to mate hunt.
Don’t bother with low quality people, and don’t take dating and relationship advice from same. Most important – learn to spot and kick them out. Don’t trust and open yourself too quickly when you are naive. Nothing beats intuition.
You are attracted to yourself in the opposite gender in a complementary way. You are finding yourself in the opposite gender.
He doesn’t need to respect her. He needs to be impressed by her and find her lovable.
Impress him with your frugality.
Earn his praises to feel good.
It takes to be a low quality woman to come up with manipulative or insulting tests. Some unconscious testing which is out of her control is fine when she doesn’t know him. Once she trusts him, the tests need to disappear permanently.
Your bank accounts change into being joint bank account after marriage. Her money is His money, and His money is their money. Do you want to marry and enter such with this person ?
Take the burden of approaching or lose out. There aren’t that many high value men in this generation. Also, learn to take rejections like men do.
Her being a Good Mother test – Her opinion on Daycare.
Marrying a trad minded man means to cutoff with your mother during dating and after getting married. Many mothers don’t let go off their daughter, and this won’t work for a successful marriage to happen anymore. Other than when having to take care of your mother in her old age, interaction with her should be limited after marriage.
There are some odd matches couples wherein one dresses decently and the other one dresses with mainstream degenerate modern styling. Looks weird.
She has to appear cheerful and happy on her face. She cannot be dead from inside.
Extroverted women have it easier, with getting approached. Imagine being reserved when some man comes to chat and is trying to get her to open up.
Visit spiritual centers often. The crowd is overall better than elsewhere.
There is not much femininity left in women, which gets reflected through their appearance. Feminine women don’t have much competition.
Need to have the will to be able to create a love story in the real world and not be left in imagination. To act, play the role of a lover and make it happen. This requires more resilience in the current times.
Imagine a beautiful Gen Z woman not leveraging her beauty to snag a more worthier man than her level and then having a shot at future unlike almost all Gen Z women who don’t have one.
Being dumb shows on the face.
With the atomized society and for the current times, you need few people to attend for your wedding.
Hunt for a person who is happy or blissful. Most people are depressed due to the times.
Don’t try to make it happen with someone who isn’t meant for you.
Since most high value women have been lost to feminism – having a boyfriend, and the rare ones who never had one tend to be career feminists, truly high value women who are also physically and emotionally virgin and family oriented are not greater than 1% of women. Since this is the demographics a high value man has to hunt from and match with, along with fight the entire feminist times and society, to be able to have a normal successful marriage and be having well raised children, no greater than 1% of men can achieve such.
No High value man falls in love with a woman who has not remained an emotionally virgin i.e not fallen for anyone even mentally be it she is physically a virgin.
Being family oriented or seeking love doesn’t make a woman a high value woman. There are low value women who want a child or love and learn trad gender dynamics and still carry feminist or bitchy energy (gets negated in women who are spiritually grounded).
The kind of liberal crowd that sits at cafes including at Starbucks is not the kind of people to mate hunt from. Cafe is a place to sit for a date but not mate hunt from the crowd present.
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